Thursday, February 27, 2014

Bodily changes Bring it on! Sex does boost intelligence

Hurrah for Britain's Prince Harry! Just when it seemed like the British royal family - after a salacious past of scandal and sleaze amidst all that silk and satin - was settling down to a boring middle-age, Prince Charles respectably married to Camilla, William and Kate the very epitome of staid wedded life, Harry broke the calm-down mould. And went on a drunken romp during a recent visit to Las Vegas, his princely pastimes leading to Britain's royal 'spare' playing 'strip billiards' (Geet Sethi - hearing this?), nobly honouring his losses therein with a similarly-unclothed female player pressed up against him. Images of this tournament, captured apparently on mobile phones, have since blazed their way across the western media, 'dirty Harry' delighting many a viewer on the internet or perusing the American papers.


Sex not only helps decrease stress levels and burn away calories, but boosts your intelligencetoo!

Love-making proved to greatly increase the creation of new neurons located within the hippocampus - an area of the brain that is responsible for the formation of long-term memory, say researchers.


And the royal household back in Blighty? Well, they're certainly not amused. The Windsors have been trying, through stiff upper lips, frowning warnings and ministerial head-shaking, to tell the British media, hands off Harry. Their attempts at looking the picture of perfect propriety again shaken and stirred as roughly as a garage-party cocktail, the royals did not want Harry's naked pictures published - or as things stand, re-re-published - on home ground. However, defying the velvet gloves and iron hands pointing regally at them, the British newspapers replied that not printing 'dirty Harry' would amount to merely twirling an ostrich feather in the sand, since the pictures were already online and merrily being viewed by amused audiences across America, Asia and Africa. 
"We discovered that even though there had been the production of new neurons, the cognitive abilities acquired during the experiment decreased once the mice were subjected to long periods without sexual activity," psychologists from the University of Maryland in the US were quoted as saying.

Increased sexual activity floods an individual's brain cells with oxygen, they noted.

Another study by Konkuk University in Seoul, South Korea, provided further substantial evidence.

According to the Korean study, sex increases intellectual functions.

Sexual activity buffers the creation of neurons in the hippocampal region of the brain, which acts against detrimental functions caused by extreme stress.

Older couples that are more sexually active have less odds of getting dementia which is due to a variation of complicated reasons, said a report in Glamour magazine.

CHUA SOILED LEK AND DOMINIQUE STRAUSS-KAHN, AT 62, HAS A NOTORIOUSLY ACTIVE SEX-LIFE ADVANCED AGE IS NO REASON TO GIVE UP BEDROOMACTIVITIES,“INTERESTING, VERY INTERESTING!” THAT WAS MY REACTION TO THE NEWS THAT AN NRI BROTHER OF A FRIEND OF MINE WAS GETTING HITCHED. BEFORE YOU DEEM IT AN INAPPROPRIATE REACTION—WHICH IN THE FIRST INSTANCE IT IS BOUND TO SEEM—LET ME TELL YOU WHY I REACTED THE WAY I DID.ACTUALLY, HE IS A DYNAMIC, AMBITIOUS AND QUALIFIED YOUNG MAN WITH A HIGHLY PAID JOB IN THE USA. AND, THEREFORE, A “PRIZE CATCH”, IF EVER THERE WAS ONE. SO HIS PARENTS LIVED IN CONSTANT DREAD OF HAVING A “FIRANGI BAHU” IMPOSED UPON THEM, BUT THEIR SON’S EXPRESSED WISH TO GET HIM AN INDIAN BRIDE HAD QUELLED THEIR FEARS AND GLADDENED THEIR HEARTS. AND THE SEARCH WAS ON.

Bodily changes

During menopause, the cells responsible for lubrication inside the vagina erode. As a result, it takes longer for a woman to be aroused. “The hormonal changes may make her irritable and she may abstain from sex because she doesn’t feel like it,” says Watsa. “Intercourse without proper lubrication can be very painful. The size of the cervix, uterus and ovaries also decreases. The anticipation before an orgasm also decreases, and they may be less intense.” For men, erection problems after the age of 50 are common. The erection may not be as strong, the force of ejaculation also decreases and the recovery between ejaculations may take 12 to 24 hours. “Men get disheartened when they are unable to sustain an erection like before, and may abstain from sex rather than risk ‘disappointing’ their wives,” says Watsa. “So they take to masturbation. If and when he gets an erection, the man will run to his wife to make use of the timing. At that time, she may not be aroused and intercourse can hurt her.” Have better sex Intercourse is not the goal Inserting the penis inside the vagina need not be the primary aim for the elderly. “The sexual centre in the brain focuses heavily around the genitals till your 40s,” says Watsa. As reproduction needs are met by this age, physiological changes take place. But you can still reach an orgasm by other means, such as togetherness. Touching and feeling each other can develop intimacy, which will help kindle lost sexual desire. Despite advanced age, clitoral sensitivity remains the same. Massaging each other’s private parts, indulging in oral sex and having a bath together can be sexually satisfying. Use stimulation
“This is the only time in your life when erotica will be legitimately helpful,” says Dr Watsa. It can act as a stimulant and get you excited quicker than expected. So play out your fantasies and don’t be ashamed of your age. Artificial stimulators Sexual stimulators, such as suction pumps, cost around Rs 15-20,000 and are available with a doctor’s prescription. The pump is worn around the penis as it creates suction and helps those with erection problems. In another procedure, elastic rods are surgically implanted into the penis. This is beneficial for those who do get an erection at all or take hours to achieve it. The rod gives the man a permanent erection and allows him to use it when required; and tuck it down, when he doesn’t.Tablets such as Viagra are widely available, but they must be consumed only with a doctor’s prescription as they can have sideeffects. Research is underway for similar tablets for women.
Vibrators, which are not legally available in India, can be very useful to cause arousal. “You can buy a massage kit from the market, which comes equipped with a vibrator like device,” says Watsa.
Eat healthy
If you have had an unhealthy lifestyle in your youth, there are high chances that your sex life in old age will be affected. “You can’t start eating a balanced diet suddenly and expect results the next day,” says Watsa. “You have to begin eating healthy, exercising regularly at a young age and continue to do so till the end. If you have maintained your health and enjoyed a healthy sex life in your younger years, you are likely to do so afterwards as well. Consuming alcohol or cigarettes on social occasions does not cause harm.”
Adapt sexual positions Sex can be a painful and irritable experience for those suffering from arthritis, back problems, heart conditions, diabetes or any other disease. Changing positions can make intercourse an enjoyable experience. For instance, the woman-ontop position is suitable for those suffering from a cardiac condition. Consult a sexologist to get advice on the position suitable to your specific health condition. Live-in relationships, popular among youngsters who want to check compatibility with their partners before marriage, has found favour with the elderly as well.A lull in bedroom activity can be due to physical ailments. Here’s a guide on coping Sex is something most of us want, especially if we’re in loving relationships. But of course, it’s not always as easy as it sounds, and health problems can be behind a lot of men’s struggles. Here’s a look at some of the most common sex problems challenging men, and how you can make it right… Trouble keeping up Most men suffer from erection problems at some time in their lives, but if you find it hard to achieve and maintain erections on a regular basis you may need to swallow your pride and visit your doctor. The good news is, they will be able to help.
Fix it These days, the prospects for sufferers of what is known as Erectile Dysfunction (ED) has improved enormously – even for men over 60. ED can have physical causes, including diabetes, and be an indicator of serious problems like heart disease, so it’s important to see your doctor about it. Other common triggers include stress, exhaustion and depression. Your doctor may also suggest counselling, with or without your partner, sometimes in tandem with a drug to help kick-start the process.
Good maintenance To keep in good erectile health, you should keep fit, with regular exercise three times per week. Try to get a good night’s sleep and cut down on alcohol. Avoid cigarettes altogether, as nicotine narrows the all important blood vessels in the penis. Sex drive stuck in low gear A temporary loss of sex drive happens more often than you may think and for a multitude of reasons. A lowered libido can be the result of an underlying health problem such as high blood pressure, obesity or anaemia, but more often the trigger is purely psychological and linked to stress. Fix it If your libido refuses to rev after yet another day at work, it may not just be that you’re tired. It could be your nervous system is too flooded with stress hormones to produce the hormones involved in sexual response, such as testosterone. While there are no drugs for loss of libido, you should always see your doctor in the first Low sperm count While a low sperm count doesn’t affect your sexual performance, it can make starting a family difficult, and with a rising incidence rate it’s one aspect of sexual health you shouldn’t ignore. Some 20 years ago, research by a Danish scientist, Professor Skakkebaek, suggested that sperm counts had fallen by about a half over 50 years and scientists have been puzzling over the causes ever since.
But while environmental factors such as pollution often take the blame, the truth is your own lifestyle choices have a major role to play.
Fix it
Recent studies have found plenty of evidence tying obesity to low sperm counts. So lose weight if you need to. Conversely, a balanced diet with plenty of fruit and vegetables, rich in vitamin C, and shellfish, for the zinc, is known to have a positive effect on sperm quality. Boxer shorts are a better choice than briefs for the same reason.The first-ever public function to help 50-plus men and women from across India find live-in companions will be held on November 20 at Mehndi Nawaz Jung Hall in Ahmedabad. Organizer Natubhai Patel, who runs Vina Mulya Amulya Sewa, an organization created to help arrange marriages of lonely senior citizensin the country, says the concept of live-in relationships has interested a lot of elderly, who are shy of getting married again fearing legal wrangles and succession disputes. Also, many seniors are wary of being stuck with an incompatible partner in old age.”Of the 3,000-odd applications, nearly 1,000 prefer finding a live-in partner who will keep them company without inviting social and legal complications associated with marriage. Most women still prefer marriage but many say they are fine with live-in companions if they provide them financial security,” Patel said.Asha Pandya, a 51-year divorcee in Vejalpur, is keen to find a partner with whom she can live to the fullest, watching movies, eating out and travelling. “Once bitten, twice shy, I do not want to get into a marriage without knowing if my relationship with the man will work or not. However, I need financial security and want the partner to put some money in my name first,” said Pandya, who confesses to feeling lonely after her only daughter got married.Alpesh Parikh, 61, a retired bank officer who draws a pension of Rs 16,000 is also looking for a live-in partner. “I live with my son and daughter-in-law and need a companion. I am ready to move out if I find the right partner. I would like to get married only if I am comfortable,” said Parikh.Patel said all men and women above 50 years of age including divorcees, widows and single are eligible to join the meet in Ahmedabad.How long can you last without intercourse, beforeabstinence starts negatively influencing and affecting your overall health? How well do you know your “sexual watch”? How well can you interpret your “need” for having sex? Can this need be calmed and oppressed just by the tender gestures of your partner or do you need an entire sexual “show” to feel completely satisfied? Since most people do not ask themselves these kind of questions, there are often conflicts due to the difference between the behaviour and the sexual needs of everyone.
What are your priorities? Sex is, undoubtedly, a necessity of the body, based on two coordinates: reproduction and the tendency to socialize, to permanently cooperate with those around us. Survival on long periods of time is based to humans’ abilities to live in groups, which involves the birth of relations, more or less lasting or enjoyable. Most times, one of the options regarding celebrating or making an inter-human relationship official is the sexual act itself. How is your body saying you need to have sex? It might be easy to overlook your body’s signals regarding the need to have sex, because many times you associate them to other problems which you probably have to deal with on a daily basis. The best way is to observe which and how many negative moods go away immediately after having sex. Keep in mind the fact that sex does not always involve two people, in other terms, consider masturbation an option.
Must-have-sex signals
- Excessive nervousness
- Long states of unjustified anxiety, migraines
- Permanent stress
- Lack of food appetite
- Lack of the need to sleep
- Contradictory feelings regarding certain persons
- Frequent sexual fantasies, especially during nighttime.
Practically, a non-existing sexual life causes a lot of reactions, more or less explicable, and in some extreme cases it can lead to severe physical and philological reactions: skin itches, irritations, anger etc. You could end up hurting the ones beside you, emotionally or even physically, because you did not “read” one of your body’s cries for help.
Once you fully and completely understand your body’s message: “I need sex!” it will be a lot easier for you to identify the time periods these unpleasant symptoms occur. If you manage to do this, you will also be able to prevent them. Of course, these intervals vary from person to person, and they are dependent to certain factors, such as age, sex, lifestyle, physical condition, pregnancy, menopause etc. All in all, make sure you take some time and really analyze yourself and your body, your needs and your desires, and that way you will manage to understand the course of action you have to take so that everything returns on its’ right normal “path” again. Many people want to refer to them as “gold diggers”, “funeral chasers” and other cruel names simply because they are young and single and looking for an older man for a unique relationship. These ladies are none of these things. They are confident and self-assured and know what they want in a man. By no means are they “gold diggers”.These women are not unique in their quest to be with older men. Many young ladies are saying goodbye to uncouth and selfish, immature guys and introducing themselves to caring and generous older men. If you look around when
you are out and about, you will realize these relationships are not oddities; they are becoming the norm.
Single, young women are seeking relationships with older men because they appreciate the advantages that come from dating someone with more life experience. The advantages include:Being with a confident and mature individual. Older men have lots of life experience, and they are comfortable in their own skins. They are not trying to change themselves or anyone else. They are also not looking for a mommy figure or someone to care for them. These men are more than capable of handling their own needs.
Being treated like a real lady. Males with some years under their belt are gentle and caring. They treat ladies like ladies and not as worthless possessions that can be treated carelessly. These men believe in romance, long conversations, and fifty-fifty relationships. If their women are not happy, they are not happy.
Being showered with affection. Older gentlemen are generous to a fault, financially and sexually. They give to show their companions how much they care, not because they want to get something back.
The advantages listed above are examples of how mature men behave. Young men are too narcissistic to be able to conduct themselves in such a manner, and this is why women are seeking out older gentlemen for affairs. No female in her right mind would settle for fool’s gold when the real thing is within dating distance.
Obviously, as soon as word had leaked out that he intended to end his single status, friends, relatives and well-wishers had crawled out of the woodwork with “suitable” offers, much to his parents’ delight. Mr. Eligible Bachelor had, of course, made it eminently clear that he did NOT want a dumb bimbette type, no matter how ornamental or how good a home-maker she may be. The deciding factor would be education and intelligence, that’s it—a girl on the same intellectual bandwidth as himself, y’know.Anyways, to cut a long story short, the list of girls was pared down to four or five probables who fulfilled the essential qualifications he had enumerated. But surprisingly, not one of these hopefuls could pass the acid test. Instead of choosing from any of these smart, qualified women, he chose… ah, this was, like I said, “interesting”… a very homely girl with no academic or career aspirations to talk of. She looked good, behaved charmingly, cooked well and talked knowledgeably only about Hindi movies! Now wasn’t she just the type that our young man wouldn’t touch with a bargepole? Then what prompted him to choose her? Pretty difficult to figure out, isn’t it? Now you know why I found his matrimonial alliance “very interesting”?
The obvious reason for his choice seems to be the age-old hang-up boys have about wanting wives who are just like their Moms—you know, great cooks and home-makers and no identity of their own. Apparently, women with high IQ do not qualify as good “wife material”! Sounds retro, but recent studies by British and American universities have proved this beyond a shred of doubt! Whether they admit it or not, many men are not comfortable with having intellectual, academic, career women as their wives. Oh yes, they’d think that such women are great fun, peppy conversationalists and terrific company—only as long as they are other men’s wives! C’mon guys, that doesn’t make us women feel too good about ourselves… we wish you’d accept us and love us for who we are—intelligent, sensible, stupid, whatever. Why should your macho image feel pampered if your wife has an average or below average IQ? Sounds to me that you men lack self-confidence! Is that it, huh?Wanting a wife to be a devoted home-maker is NOT preposterous—in fact, that his how God had planned the scheme of things and every man wants a comfortable home and well-cared for family to come back to. But wanting her to have no aspirations or identity of her own definitely IS. Just let your wife decide for herself who she wants to be—housewife or career woman (and the two are not mutually exclusive in the majority of cases). And love her for her choice. Remember, if she loves you, she’ll never try to usurp your place in the sun. So what are you afraid of? If you are, take a long hard look inwards. Maybe your own insecurities are acting up; maybe you are not as great as you think you are. If that is the case, buddy, you’ve got to reshuffle your priorities.Actually, with more and more women getting educated and bagging lucrative jobs these days, this problem is becoming a hydra-headed monster. Many of the young men I spoke to on this subject wanted women to either give up their careers after marriage, or at least put it on the back-burner in preference, or rather deference (!), to home, hearth and kids ! Nothing wrong with the sentiment if it is kept in perspective—that is, if the men too are intent on being involved in the upbringing of the children and in giving them a stable home, good education and sound values. But to consider it a woman’s duty alone to bring up the kids…no, that’s not fair.
See, what I am getting at is that we women would like to be loved for the persons we are, and be married for the same reasons—not because we increase our men’s market value, or boost their egos or please their mamas. Can you do that, guys? C’mon, we are no threat to you if we are intelligent, and neither are we a shame for you if we are not. We are women, and we love our men, that’s all. And we’d do anything for love, trust us.
 






Everyone seem to be searching for the leaked and uncensored photos of the Taiwanese sex scandal involving Justin Lee/Li Zhong Rui ( 李宗瑞) now known as the Edison Chen of Taiwan. According to a report from Hong Kong, 16 pictures and a 13 seconds explicit videos were leaked and widely shared online. The different females were involved in the leaks which includes Kelly Lin (林熙蕾), Amber Ann (安心亞) and Maggie Wu( 吳亞馨). Now the young socialite is being called a serial rapist still at large. Please send more leaked pictures and/or videos relating to this controversy to the email address GutterUncensored(at)yahoo.com ASAP.


Justin Lee (李宗瑞), 27 years old, is the son of Yuanta Financial Holding's director Lee Yue-tsang (李岳苍), who reportedly has resigned from his position after his son's sex scandal was uncovered. The Taiwanese heir's sex scandal involving dozens of female celebrities and was disclosed to the public triggering quite an Internet sensation when he went on the run. Justin is accused of drugging and raping several women, and videotaping sexual intercourse with them as well as other willing partners. After two women accused him of sexual abuse Taiwanese police seized his computer and found numerous sex videos and photos on the computer that feature up to 60 singers, models and actresses, including at lease 10 who appeared unconscious during the sexual intercourse. He reportedly fled to the United States. after the allegatioms were made by the two woman but police suspect Justin Taiwan remained in Taiwan, and hiding in the northern Taiwan region.

Now the Chinese world have been actively on the hunt and requesting for the set of pictures on major forums, social media platforms and mobile messaging applications. The batch of leaked pictures show the sex scandal involving the son of a wealthy businessman Justin Lee/Li Zhong Rui ( 李宗瑞) in relations with his willing female celebrity sex partners. Justin who is currently in big trouble and on the run because of his alleged unlawful sexual activities is seen in the photos engaging in varies sex acts with several willing starlets. But police are investigating the allegation that Justin drugged two models at the same time, and used them for a threesome while they were unconscious. It is also alleged that he did not care whether or not the women were having menstrual periods and continued with sexual intercourse anyway.

Taiwanese police made an apology to the public for the disclosure of Justin’s sex scandal videos and photos, saying it is a second blow to the victims, and vowed to catch the people who initially uploaded them. But speculations have emerged that some ones inside the local police department are responsible for the disclosure. Some have checked to see if the pictures involving Kelly Lin (林熙蕾) Amber Ann (安心亞) were edited but unfortunately, the pictures involving Maggie Wu 吳亞馨 seems to be real. Maggie Wu (吳亞馨) and Justin Lee/Li Zhong Rui (李宗瑞) were in a relationship back in 2008 for 5 months.
According to Taiwan tabloids, Justin Lee frequently hanged out at night clubs across Taiwan, buying expensive liquors for others to display his wealth. Models and actresses were often spotted gathering around and hanging out with the playboy, and did not mind having intimate interactions with him such as cuddling, and French kissing. His spending in clubs have always been generous and almost everyone in the entertainment industry knows him. The female artists and models were also often pictured with him engaging in some intimate moments from time to time in tabloids. Multiple witness even shared that he fetch these girls back home quite often and his relationships has an average time span of 2 months (after knowing each other for like 1-2 days in the clubs).

Justin rumored ex-girlfriend, Maggie Wu (吴亚馨), was said to have a breakdownafter noticing she was in the exposed nude photos. She canceled a press conference scheduled to be held, for the reason she worried that she would be overwhelmed by emotion during the conference. But in the last promotional activity, she had made it clear that she had not been in touch with Justin for a long time and refused to make more response to Justin's sex scandal. Maggie dated Justin in 2008, and she was rumored to have attempted suicide by cutting her wrist after breaking up with him.

This sex scandal erupted after the 2 models sued him for sexual assault. Taipei City police took on the case even though the actual incident happened 1 year ago. Initial investigation revealed that around 60 female artiste/models were closely linked with Justin Lee/Li Zhong Rui 李宗瑞 and there might be more sexual assault victims. It is believed that these female artiste/models kept their incidents with him a secret as it would influence their reputation as a public figures. Since then Taiwan police have released a warrant to arrest Justin he went into hiding for more than 2 weeks. The story is when Justin found he was interested in someone, he would never let her go to far. After drugging her, he would take her to his place with the help of his bodyguards and then raped her.

The police investigation also revealed that there are quite a number of videos were recorded, some indicated that the female artiste/models are aware of the filming while some did not. Interestingly, the playboy named all his sex videos alphabetically with the victims' full names in the titles. These videos were kept in different folders and were arranged follow by A-Z. After filming his sexual encounters, Justin liked sharing the sex videos with his friends to boast. Apparently it was even well known in his social circle that Justin Lee/Li Zhong Rui (李宗瑞) would make sex videos and shared these videos/pictures with his friends to show off his "personal accomplishment" with the female celebrities. And apparently, Justin's father is one heck of a player as well. Lee Yue-tsang (李岳蒼) is the father of 5 kids (From 4 different women). Some have started asking, like father like son? However we should not convict the man before he as had his day in court.

Now, we are going to avoid posting here the alleged rape pictures but we will be trying to get and post the pictures and videos of this sex scandal involving willing participants. So far everything leaked pics from the Taiwan police are of women that Justin was known to have relationships with and not of the women alleging rape. Only about 16 real photos have been leaked of this scandal thus far. Many more fake images are also floating around... It can be difficult to tell what is what but below we think we have most of the real ones and hopefully not many of the fakes. It seems the people who leaked these photos used their cell phones to take pictures of the computer screens at the polices station or at Justin's house so the images are not direct copies from Justin's collection. Hopefully some brave soul will download the images and share with the world without getting caught. And remember to send pictures and/or videos (of individuals 18 year-old or older) toGutterUncensored(at)yahoo.com ASAP. Enjoy! Click on pictures to enlarge.


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