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Domestic abuse physical,verbal or emotional is rampant among the upper middle class.They just dont like to talk about it.
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Domestic abuse physical,verbal or emotional is rampant among the upper middle class.They just dont like to talk about it.
They should have seen the signs when Rupa occasionally began to miss her weekly lunches with the ladies. But she put it down to the redecoration at home and they believed her. One day in yoga class, she sat aside, complaining of a sprained muscle. When Shalini offered her a back rub, she hurriedly declined. In the locker room,Shalini noticed the bruise on her shoulder. Many heart-to-hearts later, Rupa broke down and confessed Vikram had been hitting her every night for the past six months. Vikram is a top city doctor and Rupa, a qualified CA, works from home.
Like many others and there are an alarming number of women like her Rupa chose to suffer silently, unwilling to share her plight. The embarrassment of having to admit to something so horrific something that only happened to her house maid was almost as distressing as the violent act itself
They should have seen the signs when Rupa occasionally began to miss her weekly lunches with the ladies. But she put it down to the redecoration at home and they believed her. One day in yoga class, she sat aside, complaining of a sprained muscle. When Shalini offered her a back rub, she hurriedly declined. In the locker room,Shalini noticed the bruise on her shoulder. Many heart-to-hearts later, Rupa broke down and confessed Vikram had been hitting her every night for the past six months. Vikram is a top city doctor and Rupa, a qualified CA, works from home.
Like many others and there are an alarming number of women like her Rupa chose to suffer silently, unwilling to share her plight. The embarrassment of having to admit to something so horrific something that only happened to her house maid was almost as distressing as the violent act itself
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Ranjana Kumari from the Centre for Social Research confirms thatdomestic violence is on the rise in the upper middle class. The biggest problem with this class is that victims break their silence after having suffered for long. They associate social stigma and a sense of shame with the situation and prefer to suffer in silence, she says.
In a case that ended in a mutual consent divorce a couple of years ago, a well known Mumbai socialite had initially put up with a harassing and abusive husband for the sake of the kids. Their days often ended with the wife getting battered. Finally a petition for divorce on grounds of cruelty was filed. Later, since both parties were seeing other people, it was converted to a mutual consent settlement.
Ranjana Kumari from the Centre for Social Research confirms thatdomestic violence is on the rise in the upper middle class. The biggest problem with this class is that victims break their silence after having suffered for long. They associate social stigma and a sense of shame with the situation and prefer to suffer in silence, she says.
In a case that ended in a mutual consent divorce a couple of years ago, a well known Mumbai socialite had initially put up with a harassing and abusive husband for the sake of the kids. Their days often ended with the wife getting battered. Finally a petition for divorce on grounds of cruelty was filed. Later, since both parties were seeing other people, it was converted to a mutual consent settlement.
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Close to 60 per cent of the cases that come to me are those related to abuse in marriage, reveals psychiatrist Sanjay Chugh, MD, who has a clinic in Delhi's tony Greater Kailash area. Violence at home is rampant in the upper classes of society, only these women don't admit to it easily, he adds.
Which is the biggest problem. The victim is emotionally paralysed by a mix of confusion, shock, numbness, helplessness, hopelessness, worthlessness, embarrassment, guilt, fear and depression, says Dr Shamsah Sonawalla, consultant psychiatrist at Mumbai's Jaslok Hospital. Admitting to violence at home physical, emotional or mental takes guts, and most women fail to gather those.
While those who are not financially independent have nowhere to go, or stay silent for the sake of the kids, others hope in vain that the problem will just go away one day. Women in rich, super rich and poor families put up with abuse, not necessarily for the wealth and status, but because each woman holds hope in her heart that things will change, says top family lawyer Mridula Kadam.
When people asked 31-year-old Asha Kapoor, an ad exec with a Gurgaon-based agency, why she stayed with a physically and verbally abusive husband for seven years, she had a simple answer: At the back of my mind, I did know that our relationship was unhealthy, that this was not how a normal marriage should be. But I was always hoping that things would improve, she says.
Kapoor also had another take, a variation of the Stockholm syndrome (where the suffering partner becomes used to, even comfortable with, an unhappy situation, and develops sympathy for the offending spouse).You feel its not that bad and many other women are worse off. Its a huge decision to get married and an even bigger one to walk out of a bad marriage. So one tends to become used to being unhappy, switch off as and when necessary, and carry on with life, she says.
That switching off and carrying on is what saves many men. Take the case of Rajeev Vats, who works with a private airline. After years of being abused by the outwardly dashing pilot, his wife finally approached a legal counsellor and was on the verge of registering a police complaint when Vats fell at her feet and begged forgiveness. She has not returned for any further action to her counsellors. Most women believe it will stop, but my experience has shown there's no end to domestic violence, says Sonawalla.
Chugh has another alarming fact to share in most cases, the abuse begins early on in the marriage. Men who have seen their fathers beat up their mother's waste no time in meting out the same treatment to their wives, he says.
What can be done? The first thing to do is to ensure safety physical, financial and emotional to the victim. And then, depending on what the long-term decision is, one has to ensure the abuse does not recur, advises Sonawalla.
It takes a very small trigger for the abused spouse to make that life-altering decision. For Kapoor, the moment came one night when she was driving home from work and her husband rang up, screaming about her being late. "Something just went off in my head. I drove to my father's house, never to return."
Names changed to protect identity
(Inputs by Shikha Mishra,Ambika Pandit and Swati Deshpande)
Real time horror stories
Kiranjit Ahluwalia's story was not known to many people in India until Jagmohan Mundra got Aishwarya Rai to play the battered housewife in Provoked(2007).While critics felt the film had factual and legal inaccuracies, the basic premise of a wife suffering from repeated abuse and finally revolting was one many women identified with. Unable to bear the brutality of her husband, Kiranjit attempts to hit back and unintentionally ends up killing him. The rest of the film involved a legal battle that finally ended up redefining provocation in cases of battered women in the UK. In 1984,film-maker Basu Bhattacharya's wife and Bimal Roy's daughter Rinki, admitted she was a victim of domestic abuse.She later went on to make a documentary (Char Divari) and write a book (Behind Closed Doors: Domestic Violence In India) on how educated and financially independent women suffer physical and mental abuse at the hands of their husbands.
WOMEN AND SOCIETY WE’RE A MYSTERY TO SOME PEOPLE. WANT TO ASK ABOUT OUR SINGLE LIFE GATHERERS, PLANNERS & OTHER OCD BEHAVIORS
We’re different, IndieMoms. And so, of course, we’re a mystery to some people. There are certain questions that people always seem to want to ask about our single life, so I say let’s just let them in on it, shall we?
This is for anyone in your life who wonders what it’s like to be you…
Women often say that men tend to ogle at their breasts and their face is the last thing they notice, and now a scientific study has found evidence to prove them right.
Scientists have found that almost half – 47 per cent – of men first glance at a woman’s breasts. A third of the “first fixations” are on the waist and hips, while fewer than 20 per cent look at the woman’s face, reports the Daily Mail in UK.
In fact, breasts are not only the first thing men look at, they also glance at them for longer than any other body part, revealed experts. Many believe that the reason behind such male tendency could be evolutionary, as women with larger chests and slim waists – such as Jennifer Hawkins, Lara Bingle and Rachael Finch – have higher levels of the female hormone oestrogen, indicating greater fertility. But the researchers conceded that there could be a more prosaic explanation
. 
“Men may be looking more often at the breasts because they are simply aesthetically pleasing, regardless of the size,” the Daily Telegraph quoted them as saying.
Subjects tested by researchers from New Zealand’s University of Wellington were presented with six images of the same woman, digitally altered to increase or decrease the size of her bust, waist and hips. The scientists recorded which areas men looked at first, the number of times they looked, and how long their gaze lasted, using cameras and mirrors to measure tiny eye movements.
“Eighty per cent of first fixations were on the breasts and midriff. Men spent consistently more time looking at the breasts and also made significantly more fixations upon them than other regions,” the study concluded.
It also found that men began to gaze at the “components of the hourglass figure” within 0.2 seconds. The research also discovered that few glances were directed at the arms, lower legs and feet.
Ask me if it’s fun to date, because somewhere deep down, you wonder what it would be like if you were back out there…what it’s like to have sex with someone new…what you might fetch on the open market. And I’ll tell you that most of the time it is fun. Like when you find yourself at 1a.m. making out with a summer fling on a New York City sidewalk in the pouring rain. Or when you wake up to a text from a guy you had a fantastic first date with the night before that says, “Good morning, beautiful. Hope you slept well.” Yeah, that makes the 6:45a.m. scorched oatmeal/where’s my backpack/no-you-can’t-wear-an-off-the-shoulder-shirt-because-you’re-in-second-grade slog a lot more tolerable.
And then sometimes, it isn’t. Like when the guy you’ve been dating for six months suddenly tells you that he’s “confused,” and you have no idea what that means. You’re a grown woman, and a kick-ass IndieMom at that–you have waaay too much going on to let something like this get to you. And yet it does, and it’s made all that much harder because now you have to face the 6:45 slog with a sick feeling in your gut. And, of course, at no point can you let on to IndieBabe that that’s not exactly an “allergy pill” you’re taking to calm the whirring dating crazies in your head.
Ask me if I knew that my marriage was a mistake before I walked down the aisle. I know why you’re asking; you need to know if this can happen to you. No, I don’t think my marriage was a mistake. It was seven years of success…until it wasn’t. Did I sense that maybe we weren’t meant for the long run? Okay, maybe, a little (and I think he did, too). But he was lovely and I thought it was nerves that would be quelled by the security of stainless steel silverware and a warm body next to mine every night. I think a lot of brides float down the aisle in that pretty poufy dress with a corseted stomach filled with butterflies. It takes a while to know if they were actually butterflies or your instincts throwing karate kicks against your lower ribs to get your attention.
It’s ok to ask me if I get lonely. Yes, course I do. National holidays without IndieBabe can
seriously suck. Cut to midnight, New Years Eve 2008: I’m sitting alone on the side of the community pool at my parents’ condo in Boca staring at a “No Diving” sign featuring a stick figure doing exactly that, his neck dramatically and I’m guessing fatally kinked. At that moment I could relate to the poor guy.
But I also get the elation of freedom and adventures yet to be had. Your life is just the mirror opposite of mine. You have security and consistency; I have breathing room and the ability to make my life into anything I want it to be. I’ve been on the flip side of the looking glass, and I know that it’s not any better to feel like you don’t have a second to yourself and or to wonder the proverbial “Is this all there is?” It’s taken me a lot of time and many rounds of “their life looks so perfect” holiday cards to get that neither side is better or worse–they’re just different.
Ask me if I’m happy, because ultimately, that’s what you really want to know–especially if you’re asking me because you’re trying to sort out your own question of whether to stay or go. And while I would never, ever advocate for divorce, my answer is absolutely, unequivocally: yes.
Casual sex does not cause emotional or psychological damage in young people, says a new study.
Researchers at the University of Minnesota found that young adults engaging in casual sexual encounters do not appear to be at increased risk for harmful psychological outcomes as compared to sexually active young adults in more committed relationships.
While this study focused on the psychological impact, researchers warned that the physical risks of casual sex should not be overlooked.
Study author Marla E. Eisenberg and colleagues used data from Project Eating Among Teens (EAT), an ongoing study that assessed a diverse sample of 1,311 sexually active young adults.From 2003-2004, 574 males and 737 females in Minnesota with a mean age of 20.5 were surveyed regarding sexual behaviours and emotional wellbeing.
Of the sexually active respondents, 55 per cent reported that their last sexual partner was an exclusive dating partner followed by 25 per cent whose most recent partner was a fiancée, spouse, or life partner.
Much lower percentages reported that their last sexual partner was a close but not exclusive partner (12 per cent) or a casual acquaintance (8 per cent). Over twice as many males as females reported that their last partner was casual.
Although there has been speculation in public discourse that sexual encounters outside a committed romantic relationship may be emotionally damaging for young people, this study found no differences in the psychological wellbeing of young adults who had a casual sexual partner verses a more committed partner.
“While the findings from this study show that young adults engaging in casual sexual encounters do not appear to be at increased risk for harmful psychological outcomes compared to those in more committed relationships, this should not minimize the legitimate threats to physical well-being associated with casual sexual relationships, and the need for such messages in sexuality education programs and other interventions with young adults,” Eisenberg said
. 
In fact, I’ll even venture this: I’ve never been happier in my life. Crazy, I know, but it’s true. I have my girl, I have my sense of self, and I have the wide open possibility of a fabulous new life yet to be created.
Oh, and btw…sex with someone new? Yeah, it’s as good as you think it is.A conversation with someone you just met at a pub could turn intimate and there are chances that you might even get lucky if things turn a little romantic. And, if a recent study is to be believed, one-night stands are increasingly turning into meaningful relationships.
Many surveys have suggested that the quality of a relationship is better for individuals who wait for things to get serious before having sex, in comparison to the those who become sexually involved right at the start. However, this new study found that a woman who is involved with a friend is 44 % more likely to stay committed and as for the men, the likelihood increases by 25%. If the same people were to get involved with a stranger or acquaintance, the odds increase by 30% for women and 43% for men.
“To have a meaningful relationship out of a one-night stand is absolutely wishful thinking and many people are in denial,” says Sanjana, a graduate and regular party-goer, “A one-night stand can be dangerous as it increases the chances of contracting sexually transmitted diseases — not the best thing to happen, especially when one is merely looking for fun.”The ‘friends with benefits’ concept has also been in existence for long, and although it is based on sexual gratification, which can be temporarily fulfiling, a mature mind stops one from being part of the game.
Rhea, a visual artist, who believes in being sexually experimental, says, “Having sex with random men gives one a liberated feel initially. But the down side of this behaviour is that after some time, it backfires and gives one a feeling of worthlessness. In some ways, it’s like abusing and disrespecting your body.” However, she was the one who met her mate in the most casual of circumstances. She met a Canadian national over a drink, they got talking, exchanged stories and are now in love. “It was such a beautiful feeling. We haven’t made love yet and I’m in no hurry as I’ve never felt this way before,” she says, “It may not be a one-night stand, but if the chemistry we share is good, there’s nothing stopping us from going ahead and getting into a relationship.” So, it appears that the study does have some relevance even in our country.
Psychologist Sudha says, “Couples who become sexually involved with friends or acquaintances and are open to serious relationships could end up just as happy as those who date and wait.”
However, Rhea might have been lucky, and although a random hook-up at a bar does have the potential to turn into a passionate relationship, some relationship experts say it’s not really the best idea. Clinical psychologist, Seema Hingorrani says, “Often, sexual intimacy leads the couple to believe that they can have a good relationship as well. But later, feelings of guilt creep in. In situations like this, it’s best to tread carefully as it affects the lives of several people.”
Recalling a real-life situation, Seema says, “There was this man who was married but had a one-night stand with a woman and then wanted to marry her. He left his wife and got into a live-in relationship with the new woman, only to find out later on in life that they had serious problems. He wanted to get back with his wife, but she refused to do so and instead divorced him.”
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We’re different, IndieMoms. And so, of course, we’re a mystery to some people. There are certain questions that people always seem to want to ask about our single life, so I say let’s just let them in on it, shall we?
This is for anyone in your life who wonders what it’s like to be you…
Women often say that men tend to ogle at their breasts and their face is the last thing they notice, and now a scientific study has found evidence to prove them right.
Scientists have found that almost half – 47 per cent – of men first glance at a woman’s breasts. A third of the “first fixations” are on the waist and hips, while fewer than 20 per cent look at the woman’s face, reports the Daily Mail in UK.
In fact, breasts are not only the first thing men look at, they also glance at them for longer than any other body part, revealed experts. Many believe that the reason behind such male tendency could be evolutionary, as women with larger chests and slim waists – such as Jennifer Hawkins, Lara Bingle and Rachael Finch – have higher levels of the female hormone oestrogen, indicating greater fertility. But the researchers conceded that there could be a more prosaic explanation
.
“Men may be looking more often at the breasts because they are simply aesthetically pleasing, regardless of the size,” the Daily Telegraph quoted them as saying.
“Men may be looking more often at the breasts because they are simply aesthetically pleasing, regardless of the size,” the Daily Telegraph quoted them as saying.
Subjects tested by researchers from New Zealand’s University of Wellington were presented with six images of the same woman, digitally altered to increase or decrease the size of her bust, waist and hips. The scientists recorded which areas men looked at first, the number of times they looked, and how long their gaze lasted, using cameras and mirrors to measure tiny eye movements.“Eighty per cent of first fixations were on the breasts and midriff. Men spent consistently more time looking at the breasts and also made significantly more fixations upon them than other regions,” the study concluded.It also found that men began to gaze at the “components of the hourglass figure” within 0.2 seconds. The research also discovered that few glances were directed at the arms, lower legs and feet.Ask me if it’s fun to date, because somewhere deep down, you wonder what it would be like if you were back out there…what it’s like to have sex with someone new…what you might fetch on the open market. And I’ll tell you that most of the time it is fun. Like when you find yourself at 1a.m. making out with a summer fling on a New York City sidewalk in the pouring rain. Or when you wake up to a text from a guy you had a fantastic first date with the night before that says, “Good morning, beautiful. Hope you slept well.” Yeah, that makes the 6:45a.m. scorched oatmeal/where’s my backpack/no-you-can’t-wear-an-off-the-shoulder-shirt-because-you’re-in-second-grade slog a lot more tolerable.
And then sometimes, it isn’t. Like when the guy you’ve been dating for six months suddenly tells you that he’s “confused,” and you have no idea what that means. You’re a grown woman, and a kick-ass IndieMom at that–you have waaay too much going on to let something like this get to you. And yet it does, and it’s made all that much harder because now you have to face the 6:45 slog with a sick feeling in your gut. And, of course, at no point can you let on to IndieBabe that that’s not exactly an “allergy pill” you’re taking to calm the whirring dating crazies in your head.
Ask me if I knew that my marriage was a mistake before I walked down the aisle. I know why you’re asking; you need to know if this can happen to you. No, I don’t think my marriage was a mistake. It was seven years of success…until it wasn’t. Did I sense that maybe we weren’t meant for the long run? Okay, maybe, a little (and I think he did, too). But he was lovely and I thought it was nerves that would be quelled by the security of stainless steel silverware and a warm body next to mine every night. I think a lot of brides float down the aisle in that pretty poufy dress with a corseted stomach filled with butterflies. It takes a while to know if they were actually butterflies or your instincts throwing karate kicks against your lower ribs to get your attention.
It’s ok to ask me if I get lonely. Yes, course I do. National holidays without IndieBabe can
seriously suck. Cut to midnight, New Years Eve 2008: I’m sitting alone on the side of the community pool at my parents’ condo in Boca staring at a “No Diving” sign featuring a stick figure doing exactly that, his neck dramatically and I’m guessing fatally kinked. At that moment I could relate to the poor guy.
seriously suck. Cut to midnight, New Years Eve 2008: I’m sitting alone on the side of the community pool at my parents’ condo in Boca staring at a “No Diving” sign featuring a stick figure doing exactly that, his neck dramatically and I’m guessing fatally kinked. At that moment I could relate to the poor guy.
But I also get the elation of freedom and adventures yet to be had. Your life is just the mirror opposite of mine. You have security and consistency; I have breathing room and the ability to make my life into anything I want it to be. I’ve been on the flip side of the looking glass, and I know that it’s not any better to feel like you don’t have a second to yourself and or to wonder the proverbial “Is this all there is?” It’s taken me a lot of time and many rounds of “their life looks so perfect” holiday cards to get that neither side is better or worse–they’re just different.
Ask me if I’m happy, because ultimately, that’s what you really want to know–especially if you’re asking me because you’re trying to sort out your own question of whether to stay or go. And while I would never, ever advocate for divorce, my answer is absolutely, unequivocally: yes.
Casual sex does not cause emotional or psychological damage in young people, says a new study.
Researchers at the University of Minnesota found that young adults engaging in casual sexual encounters do not appear to be at increased risk for harmful psychological outcomes as compared to sexually active young adults in more committed relationships.
While this study focused on the psychological impact, researchers warned that the physical risks of casual sex should not be overlooked.
Study author Marla E. Eisenberg and colleagues used data from Project Eating Among Teens (EAT), an ongoing study that assessed a diverse sample of 1,311 sexually active young adults.
While this study focused on the psychological impact, researchers warned that the physical risks of casual sex should not be overlooked.Study author Marla E. Eisenberg and colleagues used data from Project Eating Among Teens (EAT), an ongoing study that assessed a diverse sample of 1,311 sexually active young adults.From 2003-2004, 574 males and 737 females in Minnesota with a mean age of 20.5 were surveyed regarding sexual behaviours and emotional wellbeing.
Of the sexually active respondents, 55 per cent reported that their last sexual partner was an exclusive dating partner followed by 25 per cent whose most recent partner was a fiancée, spouse, or life partner.
Much lower percentages reported that their last sexual partner was a close but not exclusive partner (12 per cent) or a casual acquaintance (8 per cent). Over twice as many males as females reported that their last partner was casual.
Although there has been speculation in public discourse that sexual encounters outside a committed romantic relationship may be emotionally damaging for young people, this study found no differences in the psychological wellbeing of young adults who had a casual sexual partner verses a more committed partner.
“While the findings from this study show that young adults engaging in casual sexual encounters do not appear to be at increased risk for harmful psychological outcomes compared to those in more committed relationships, this should not minimize the legitimate threats to physical well-being associated with casual sexual relationships, and the need for such messages in sexuality education programs and other interventions with young adults,” Eisenberg said
.
Much lower percentages reported that their last sexual partner was a close but not exclusive partner (12 per cent) or a casual acquaintance (8 per cent). Over twice as many males as females reported that their last partner was casual.
Although there has been speculation in public discourse that sexual encounters outside a committed romantic relationship may be emotionally damaging for young people, this study found no differences in the psychological wellbeing of young adults who had a casual sexual partner verses a more committed partner.
“While the findings from this study show that young adults engaging in casual sexual encounters do not appear to be at increased risk for harmful psychological outcomes compared to those in more committed relationships, this should not minimize the legitimate threats to physical well-being associated with casual sexual relationships, and the need for such messages in sexuality education programs and other interventions with young adults,” Eisenberg said
.
In fact, I’ll even venture this: I’ve never been happier in my life. Crazy, I know, but it’s true. I have my girl, I have my sense of self, and I have the wide open possibility of a fabulous new life yet to be created.
Oh, and btw…sex with someone new? Yeah, it’s as good as you think it is.
A conversation with someone you just met at a pub could turn intimate and there are chances that you might even get lucky if things turn a little romantic. And, if a recent study is to be believed, one-night stands are increasingly turning into meaningful relationships.
Many surveys have suggested that the quality of a relationship is better for individuals who wait for things to get serious before having sex, in comparison to the those who become sexually involved right at the start. However, this new study found that a woman who is involved with a friend is 44 % more likely to stay committed and as for the men, the likelihood increases by 25%. If the same people were to get involved with a stranger or acquaintance, the odds increase by 30% for women and 43% for men.
Many surveys have suggested that the quality of a relationship is better for individuals who wait for things to get serious before having sex, in comparison to the those who become sexually involved right at the start. However, this new study found that a woman who is involved with a friend is 44 % more likely to stay committed and as for the men, the likelihood increases by 25%. If the same people were to get involved with a stranger or acquaintance, the odds increase by 30% for women and 43% for men.
“To have a meaningful relationship out of a one-night stand is absolutely wishful thinking and many people are in denial,” says Sanjana, a graduate and regular party-goer, “A one-night stand can be dangerous as it increases the chances of contracting sexually transmitted diseases — not the best thing to happen, especially when one is merely looking for fun.”
The ‘friends with benefits’ concept has also been in existence for long, and although it is based on sexual gratification, which can be temporarily fulfiling, a mature mind stops one from being part of the game.
Rhea, a visual artist, who believes in being sexually experimental, says, “Having sex with random men gives one a liberated feel initially. But the down side of this behaviour is that after some time, it backfires and gives one a feeling of worthlessness. In some ways, it’s like abusing and disrespecting your body.” However, she was the one who met her mate in the most casual of circumstances. She met a Canadian national over a drink, they got talking, exchanged stories and are now in love. “It was such a beautiful feeling. We haven’t made love yet and I’m in no hurry as I’ve never felt this way before,” she says, “It may not be a one-night stand, but if the chemistry we share is good, there’s nothing stopping us from going ahead and getting into a relationship.” So, it appears that the study does have some relevance even in our country.
Psychologist Sudha says, “Couples who become sexually involved with friends or acquaintances and are open to serious relationships could end up just as happy as those who date and wait.”
However, Rhea might have been lucky, and although a random hook-up at a bar does have the potential to turn into a passionate relationship, some relationship experts say it’s not really the best idea. Clinical psychologist, Seema Hingorrani says, “Often, sexual intimacy leads the couple to believe that they can have a good relationship as well. But later, feelings of guilt creep in. In situations like this, it’s best to tread carefully as it affects the lives of several people.”
Recalling a real-life situation, Seema says, “There was this man who was married but had a one-night stand with a woman and then wanted to marry her. He left his wife and got into a live-in relationship with the new woman, only to find out later on in life that they had serious problems. He wanted to get back with his wife, but she refused to do so and instead divorced him.”
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