CLUB DE SEXYMIND: Freedom from sex is not repression of sex; it is the understanding of sex

Freedom from sex is not repression of sex; it is the understanding of sex. By understanding, one goes beyond it. But that does not mean that you will be angry, against it and antagonistic. You will be blissful. You will bless everybody with the hope that someday, they will also go beyond it.

Religion has to be rooted in the earth. It also has to rise towards the sun. It is like a lotus flower -- rooted in mud and rising towards the sun. The lotus has to be freed from the mud, but the mud has not to be condemned at all, because the mud is nourishment. Your sex energy is nourishment for your samadhi. It is out of the mud of sex that the lotus of samadhi is going to bloom. Never repress it! Never be against it; rather, go deep into it with great clarity, with great love. Go like an explorer. Search all the nooks and corners of your sexuality and you will be surprised and enriched and benefitted.

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Knowing your sexuality, one day you will stumble upon your spirituality. Then you become free. Your energy has risen high. Now sex is just like a toy. But you are not angry with other people who are still playing with the toy. You will understand them, too, you will have compassion for them. You would like to help them go beyond, but you will not condemn them... They are not doing anything wrong.

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Sex is not a sin. Nobody is ever punished or sent to hell for sex. God has given it to you, you are born with it; you have not created it – like the atom bomb, bayonet, sword, money or politics -- these are inventions of the ugly human mind. These people will go to hell, certainly. But sex is a God-given gift, and it is a great seed. Once it starts sprouting and finds the right soil, it will become a big tree. Millions of flowers will come to it.

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It is not only a child that is born out of sex; you will be reborn too! Sex is the very source of creativity. Out of sex new life is born. What can be more valuable than life? God has chosen sex as the vehicle for life. Life comes through sex, in sex, out of sex. And those who know, those who have gone beyond say that another life, spiritual life, also comes through it. You will become twice-born through it, you will resurrect out of it. It is life-giving energy.

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Sex is sacred; it is the temple of God. Sex is potential spirituality. How can a seeker be disinterested in it? Yes, he has no personal interest in it. He has gone beyond it; but he is immensely interested. In fact for a man who is free from sex his interest becomes very great. Now, he is interested in everything.

When you are obsessed with sex... you are not interested in poetry, music, beauty... you are only interested in sex. And if sometimes you do show interest in these things it is only because some sexuality is there. That's why 99 per cent of art is sex-based, because 99 per cent of people don't want anything else. Films, novels, books -- even so-called religious books -- are all full of sexuality. Sometimes it is in the name of condemnation, but they go on talking about the physical, the sexual. Sometimes they are obscene. The man who is free of sex, his interest is also free of sex. His interest spreads to the whole of life.

No matter where you bump into your eye candy - at a friend's house, at a bar, a restaurant or even in the midst of a crowded market, the questions remain the same: "What on Earth is he/she thinking? Does he/she really like me? Do I stand a chance?"

But do you know that men and women both are pre-programmed to send out physical clues when they're interested in the opposite sex? A huge advantage of becoming aware of your love interest's body language is that you can now read her mind and predict their next move. Here's how you can understand body language clues...

Her Body

Eye Contact : It all starts with an eye lock, doesn't it? Eyes telegraph unspoken messages and the female species definitely knows how to use this part of their body to their advantage. "I use this trick when I want to attract a guy's attention and no matter how clichéd it sounds, this trick always works!" says Sunaina Sharma, a student. "My first interaction with my wife started through eye contact. She was sitting with her friends on a staircase in college and I was a newcomer. It won't be wrong to say that she literally used her eyes as weapons to trap the prey (me)!" shares Prabhu a corporate executive.

Hot tip : "An eye contact can vary from curiosity, cool assessment to a coy interest in someone. When a girl makes eye contact that lasts longer than a furtive glance, it is a positive move on her part. If a girl looks deeply into a guy's eyes, she's telling him that he's the most charming person in the room. However, a full frontal stare is risky. It may come across as too bold to those men who get freaked out by direct behavior by a woman," says Dr. Upadhyaya.

Exposing : Yes, we know that most women love indulging in skin show, but here we're talking about a particular area: their long and smooth neck. "There was a girl in my office who was infamous for indulging in sex talks with male colleagues. She would always sit with her hair on one side of her shoulder, revealing her slender and perfumed neck. In fact, some of her friends told me once that she purposely did this as she felt it made her look sexy and was a nice way of luring someone for dirty talks," reveals Shailja Thakur, a business analyst.

Hot tip : "When you're reading a woman's body gestures, observe if she tosses her hair over one shoulder frequently. If your answer is in the affirmative, then be assured that the lady has fallen hard for you," says Dr. Akhouri. "It's an indirect act of submission and it not only exposes your neck, but also screams for attention," he adds.

Leg Crossing : The next time you get the chance to sit with your eye candy, observe her leg movements very carefully. While crossing her legs, if her top leg always points in your direction, treat it as a win-win situation. "I personally feel that a woman's whole personality changes as soon as she crosses her legs... it creates a goddess-like aura around her. On my last date, the girl sat with her legs crossed sexily all through the date and occasionally rubbed her thighs. Not only did I got broad hints, but it also was a big turn on for me," says Manu Vohra, a marketing manager.

Hot tip : According to Dr. Upadhyaya., "Leg crossing is suggestive of a nervous or provocative gesture. Often, woman can't help crossing their legs in front of the guy they have the hots for. It is a subconscious gesture that clearly says a man is getting on to her."

Arm Crossing : Crossing of arms by a woman has numerous meanings. "The receptionist in my old office used to sit with her hands and legs crossed every time I was around. Initially, I thought her to be an arrogant lass, but it was only when she asked me out one day that I realised what that meant," says Sagarmani Dhakal, a corporate executive. "The best way to highlight your assets in front of a man is to cross your hands right below your chest and the guy is bound to notice you!," suggests Puja Khanna, a marketing executive. "Whenever I want something more from a guy than just talking and shopping, this is the trick that I apply," she quips.

Hot tip : "Crossed arms signal a woman's vulnerability and it can also be a way of telling a guy that she doesn't like him and doesn't want him around at all. Crossing of arms over her chest is also a clever way of drawing attention towards her assets," explains Dr. Upadhyaya.

Leaning : If you catch your ladylove practically leaning towards your shoulders most of the times she's around you, there is very little chance that she is not madly in love with you! "I went with my colleague for a movie and throughout the film, I could feel her hair on my neck and shoulders. The hint was enough for me to understand that I wasn't a mere colleague for her anymore," says Sunny Kudav, a programmer.

So the next time you want your guy to know he means a lot to you, just put your head on his shoulder, close your eyes and relax! "When my husband and I were just friends, and wanted to graduate to the level of lovers, I kept dropping hints like these. I would quietly lean over his body and say nothing. I wanted him to know that I was dependent on him and that his company was soothing and that life without him would now be difficult," says Shailja Sharma, a housewife.

Hot tip : "There is nothing more pleasurable than to make your love confession indirectly to your man. If a woman leans on a man, it's a sign of acceptance. It means she thinks the guy is dependable and trustworthy. She has found in you her dream man," tells Dr. Akhouri.

HIS BODY

Eyebrow flash : Pay attention to your crush's eyebrows the next time you meet him, for this gesture can convey his likeability for you. "Whether you walk the corridor of a corporate office or go shopping in a crowded street, you will find at least a dozen men staring at you with their raised eyebrows. This gesture is too obvious to go unnoticed," says Drishika Chowdhry, a model.

Hot tip : "When the person we're attracted to comes before us, our first reaction is that of raising our eyebrows", says Dr. Pramod Upadhyaya. "It lasts about a fifth of a second and it happens to everyone," he adds.

He's checking out your body : His eyes take a tour of your body, stopping for a moment to scan the sexiest parts. "Guys do this all the time. I remember a guy from final year whom I dated for a couple of months. He would make it a point to scan my body as soon as I entered the class. And the strangest part was that he would want to me see his act," holds Ritu Rauthan, an MCA student. "If one wants to end up in bed with a girl, he needs to throw strong signals and the best way to do it is to let her see you when you are exploring every part of her body with your eyes," says Vishal Khandelwal, a web designer.

Hot tip : "When a guy lets you see him checking out your body, it's a way of indirectly telling the opposite sex: 'I'm considering you as a sexual partner'," says Dr.Tapas K Akhouri, a body language trainer.

His hands are on your body : This means the guy is subconsciously drawing your attention to his assets. Whichever part a man aims at is the most meaningful part to him. "My boyfriend used to position his chest towards me while talking and sometimes he would put his hands in his back pockets and walk. When we grew close he told me that these were the areas where he loves my touch the most," says Anu, a hotel receptionist.

Hot tip : "Guys generally do this to highlight their physical size and body confidence," mentions Dr. Upadhyaya. "Men point at their best sexual assets and at the parts of the body where they would most like to be touched. For example, if during a conversation, he stands with his hands on his hips, he wants you to touch and admire his bottom," he adds.

He'll start playing with circular objects : Ever wondered why? They remind him of a woman's assets. "My best friend had a habit of fiddling with rolled magazines, newspapers, paper weights and any round object he could lay his hands upon, whenever we were together. Once he caught me in private and tried to get physical. I was bewildered. Later I read about this body language cue in a magazine and realized what his gestures meant. He always had sexual thoughts on his mind," says Priya, (name changed on request), a BPO worker.

Hot tip : "Men sometimes start playing with round objects while talking to the girl they have a liking for. They may squeeze a glass or start rolling it. The reason being their sexual inclination towards that particular girl," explains Dr. Upadhyaya.

He touches his face a lot : One of the ways in which a man's body speaks of his ardent feelings is the way he touches his ears, rubs his chin and pats his cheeks with the back of his fingers in front of his lady love. "I touch my face and neck quite a lot in front of the girls I have the hots for. It is something that happens involuntarily with me...mostly when I am nervous," says Jitender Bharadwaj, a BPO employee.

Hot tip : "It's a mix of nervousness and excitement. Attraction is a dangerous matter and our body can knowingly or unknowingly reveal it in ways that are quite unfamiliar to most of us. Out lips and mouth become sensitive to touch and other stimulations," says Dr. Akhouri.

Which part of the body attracts the opposite sex?

Do you honestly want to start taming your mind and be happy? Do you have the right motivation and intention to begin?

Are you serious about it? If the answers to these questions are 'yes', know that there are three prerequisites to keep your mind under control:

First, there cannot be a beginning without knowing what to begin on. So, first, get started on the teachings. Although as Buddhist I would recommend the Buddha Dharma to you, you may choose any other teachings. Whatever you decide on, please have confident faith in it. You need to have a competent teacher to help you find answers to questions, to enable you to overcome roadblocks on the way. Masters say: "Learning to meditate without proper understanding of the teachings is like trying to climb a tree with no hands!" You must know what to meditate on before starting, and for this, you need to have a reasonable understanding of your lineage teachings. A special motivation or bodhichitta must be humbly awakened within to begin spiritual practice.

Second, Tibetan wisdom says: "Gompa ma yin, kompa yin", which means: Meditation is not, getting used to is. Meditation cannot be 'done', or for that matter done sporadically. It is not enough to stay calm during the practice and be volatile right through the day. You have to get so comfortable with meditation that it becomes embedded in your system. It becomes something that we can do anywhere and anytime and then finally all the time! However, to reach this stage, you have to calm the mind to a reasonable level of steadiness. How? The Buddha taught 84,000 ways to calm down and ease negative emotions. There are countless ways to meditate, choose yours. Be regular with your meditation; assign a time for it daily. Early mornings suit me.

Finally, be ever vigilant of the mind, of its thoughts and emotions. In an average human mind, over 50,000 thoughts and emotions come and go each day. Just let them be. Don't engage them. Especially the disturbing, negative ones. Let them rise and fall. Be at peace with their rise and subsequent fall. Never get difficult with them. They will go just as they have come. Look at the mind like an ocean and the rising and falling thoughts and emotions like the waves. Whoever has heard of the ocean being disturbed by the waves? Be like the old grandfather watching the child play. He knows the pranks going on and is amused by them too, but is vigilant of the child not causing any harm to himself or to anyone else around. In short, be mindful. The mind can slip away faster than you have realised its departure.

We take so much trouble and spend much money to get physical exercise in a gym. Why not consider a little bit of time and no money for our mind's wellness too? Imagine a world of people with strong bodies and untamed minds! It would be a terrifying place to live in, isn't it? An approach to tone both would be in everyone's interest.

Now that you will begin in right earnest, whatever goodness accrues from this, dedicate all of it to your near and dear ones, your teacher, the elderly or those you are indebted to in your life and other sentient beings around you. This way more benefit, peace and happiness will come your way.

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Here is the hottest Indonesian celebrity sex tape yet. It is of Luna Maya and Ariel Peterpan and it is spreading like wildfire on the Internet. Luna Maya is an actress and a presenter in Indonesia while Ariel Peterpan is the lead vocals of pop rock band Peterpan. Two videos were leaked allegedly showing the two artists from Indonesia getting it on hot and heavy in Indonesia's biggest celebrity sex tape yet to date. Luna Maya denied any involvement in the scandalous sex video that recently started to circulate on social networking, like Facebook, with herself and Nazril Ilham a.k.a. Ariel "Peterpan." Simply put, she says the girl in the video is not her and the guy is not Ariel. But the similarities between the couple in these sex videos and Luna Maya and Ariel are leaving people to wonder. In fact, people who know the two personally have said it is them. This is not the first scandal for the couple, Luna was rumored to be the reason for the troubled marriage of her boyfriend Ariel. Speculations of an affair arose after he was seeing with Luna before his divorce in early 2008.

About three days Indonesian web-surfers were shocked by the video recording of a woman that look very much like Luna Maya in the middle of having sex with a man who allegedly Ariel. Reportedly, the video was made in March of last year at a hotel in Jakarta. Other sources say it was at a hotel in Bali. But both sides agree this celebrity sex video is real. Luna Maya reportedly is claiming someone is trying to framer her with the sex videos. "There must be objective that people do it, (recording and spreading on the internet)" says Luna. Luna plans to find out who is the mastermind behind the making of the video. Luna Maya run away to avoid reporters who tried to get confirmation from her, Saturday morning. Yesterday, at the RCTI Studio she was in less of an avoidance mode when she made a statement: "Frankly I was really shocked to hear the news. Therefore I want to investigate who did it," said Luna. "It is used to slander," she added about the video.

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There are two hot sex videos currently at the center of attention in Indonesia, the hot videos are said to be of a pair artists who are very famous. Actress Luna Mayaand her boyfriend singer Ariel seemed to be the talk of the town recently after their sex video hit the net. Luna Maya is probably the most famous Indonesian actress right now. Ariel is a singer in "Peter Pan" pop band, one of the top band in Indonesia. Ariel and Luna were a couple a few years ago, but Ariel was forced to marry with another woman cause that woman got pregnant... However, it was a very troubled marriage and they divorce about a year ago. Then Ariel and Luna got back together but are not yet married...

The girl in the video have what appear to be a butterfly tattoo on her left hip. Some are saying this is proof the female in the sex videos is not Luna Maya because she is not believed to have a tattoo. But others believe the tattoo seen in the video is a temporary tattoo that Luna Maya got while at a resort in Bali where the sex video was made just over a year ago. The first video duration 2 minutes 37 seconds, while the second video duration is longer, with a length of 6 minutes 39 seconds. Both videos are available for download below as one merged WMV video file. The leaked sex tape of a couple who many believe to be of the two celebrities began circulating on the social networking sites Kaskus and then Facebook. Video began circulating on the evening of Thursday, June 3, 2010.

However, since Friday, June 4, 2010 morning, the webpage at the site that contain the sex video mentioned was already closed. And in fact, the video which also contained in a Facebook account could not be opened anymore. An account at Kaskus who has the ID of "Pantokrator" claimed that he recognize the couple in the video. "The scene was made on March 23, 2009," Pantokrator said Thursday night. According to him, it was made at a Bali hotel. Pantokrator's true identity is unknown but he is not believed to be behind the leak. But he sure seem to known a lot about the video. And he believe the video was accidentally leaked to the public.

Until now, there is no confirmation yet whether the video was accidentally leaked by Ariel or Luna Maya. Pantokrator expressed disappointed with the spread of the sex video which he said is of Ariel and Luna Maya. Pantokrator also admitted being a guard at Ariel's uncle studio and to personally knowing the two stars as a friend. "Previously I was afraid to use the prime ID. But honestly, I was surprised why the video which made a year ago can be circulated, in fact the video is only on their hand. I'm disappointed as a friend," he said. But Pantokrator did defend Ariel and Luna Maya by adding the video was made public by accident.

According to telecommunication experts, Abhimanyu Wahjoewidajat difficult to make out the true identity of the couple in the video, because it has low resolution. Abhimanyu revealed, the video was taken in the resolution of 340 x 120 pixels and is taken from a cell phone. "So it's hard to make out the video in such low resolution." Then, Abhimanyu says it is also hard to find people who resemble the character of Luna Maya and Ariel. Therefore, if you want to prove whether the video is genuine or not, there's only one way. Namely, by proving whether Luna Maya has a butterfly tattoo or not. "Just ask police to check whether Luna has a tattoo or not," he said

According to various sources of sex video scandal, Ariel and Luna Maya are probably the true identity of the couple and they both made the original video just over a year ago. Until now there is no official statement from the parties behind the leak nor from Ariel Peterpan or Luna Maya in connection with the circulation of both hot video on the Internet. Since the case of sex videos which featuring two persons who are similar to Luna Maya and Ariel "Peterpan" circulating on the Internet (now the video famous as Video Luna Maya), Luna Maya is the center of attention. However, the artist was still active as usual. Management "Dahsyat," a music show which hosted by Luna Maya has not decided to take a stance.

It is revealed by music show producer, Oke Jahja, at RCTI Studio, West Jakarta, Saturday, June 5, 2010 that they are still in support of Luna Maya. According Oke, so far it has not examined the truth of the sex video which said similar to Luna Maya. Nevertheless, management "Dahsyat" plans to call Luna officially to discuss the issue. "We are not going to give her any sanctions until proven if that's accurate. The truth may also need the confession of Luna and Ariel themselves," Oke told reporters. Oke is not sure when Luna will be called to clarify. According to Oke, the appearance of the video so far as had no bad impact on the events that were planed. He also assesses Luna Maya is still undergoing her job properly and professionally as usual. "Look at yourself, she's still mediocre," said Oke. Luna Maya is a host together with her colleagues Olga Syahputra and Raffi Ahmad at RCTI. But yesterday she did not finish their event. She returned home earlier because she felt unwell.

This sex scandal is so shocking that the majority think it is hoax, but there is at least one actor who believe the girl is Luna Maya. However, Luna Maya denied that in the video is of her and Ariel. "Maybe someone who looked like me and Ariel. In fact, I and Ariel are impossible to do such a thing. I, myself was shock when I had heard about that video sex scenes," Luna said when met, after the event "Dahsyat" in RCTI, Friday (6/4/10). "It is not. I do not have a butterfly tattoo on the left hip," said Luna Maya in Kebon Jeruk, West Jakarta. However, she did not intend to bring this case to litigation. "Tired like this. I am sincere. I hope the Lord reply," said Luna Maya. Luna itself admitted had not seen the video. Instead she just found out on Friday from a number of reporters, among other online media. "I was really shocked," said Luna. Her face looked pale. Luna seemed reluctant to comment further. She then hurried to her Mercedez Benz ML 350 SUV, even intercepted a number of news reporters as she ran. "Thanks," said Luna. Click on pictures to enlarge.