Are we ready for marriage? Maria Menounos American actress, journalist, and television presenter

Maria Menounos (Greek: Μαρία Μενούνος) (born June 8, 1978 in Medford, Massachusetts, U.S.A.) is a Greek-American actress, journalist, and television presenterMaria Menounos known in America for her appearances as a correspondent for Today andAccess Hollywood, and abroad for co-hosting the Eurovision Song Contest 2006 in Athens, Greece. Menounos appeared in FHM magazine and in People magazine in 2004 as one of the “50 Most Beautiful People.” In another poll conducted by askmen.com, Menounos was voted one of the top five girls a guy would most want to marry, along with Angelina Jolie, Charlize Theron and Jessica Alba. She has also beaten Jessica Alba and Charlize Theron for “Cyber Vixen of the Year” on Spike TV’s video game awards. On August 8, 2010 she won the Madden NFL Pro-AM MVP award. Here is Maria Menounos having a major bikini malfunction pussy-slip in Miami on New Year’s Eve. Or should we call it a labia majora bikini malfunction pussy-slip? Either way, Maria Menounos said goodbye to last year and hello to 2011 with a trip to Miami Beach, where she frolicked in the sand and showed off a very sexy bikini. And by ‘very sexy’ I am referring to the fact that the bikini bottoms were falling off her. So her beach adventure wasn’t completely without incident, as she had a revealing wardrobe malfunction while she was enjoying a dip in the water. You would think someone would have pointed out her bikini slip. Still, she certainly looked like she was having a good time, which was confirmed whenshe tweeted about itlater. “Beach football today w/@MichaelChiklis…” she wrote. “Paparazzi had some fun! Hope the bikini shots are flattering!” And the paparazzi did indeed have fun but I am guessing she showed off a bit more than she wanted. Yup, there is nothing like seeing the pussy of a former Miss Teen USA to bring in the new year right. You may also recognize Maria Menounos’s face from her work on theToday Show and Access Hollywood but now you will recognize her pussy from this set of sexy bikini candids from Miami Beach. But these sexy Maria Menounous pussy-slip pictures with her flashing some lip and what appear to be a pierced clitoral hood is without a doubt her best work yet. Clad in an oh-so-hot black bikini, the TV personality romped around the sandy shoreline while partaking in a game of football with “No Ordinary Family” actor Michael Chiklis. Enjoy! Click on pictures to enlarge. A behind-the-scenes look as Maria Menounos appears on “Jimmy Kimmel Live!” from arrival to makeup to showtime: While you don't mind going an extra mile to please your partner in bed, but often there are certain sexual demands to which you do not give in easily. Be it male or female partners, everyone has their set of bedroom demands, which, if not satisfied by the other partner can ruin a relationship. Sometimes slightly kinky and not-so-nice sexual demands by your partner are a turn-off as they mar sexual pleasure. It's for the partners to decide how to react to these repeated demands while having sex. If your mate is unable to meet your sex demands, chances are high that you are going out of their comfort zone and over expecting. Here experts dole out advice on easier ways to control your sex demands so as to enjoy having sex with your partner without much of disagreement... MEN'S SEXUAL DEMANDS Instant undressing : Men find it very fascinating to see their girl naked. So mastering the act of undressing is a vital which men will insist on during a quickie. What irks women about this demand is the continuous pressure to undress all at once as most women prefer a long and sensual foreplay. Meet the demand : Sex therapist Dr. Ratan Mehrotra suggests, "Men need to be a little more calm and patient and let women enter a comfort zone where they can undress sans any inhibitions. Expecting your mate to strip at once isn't as simple as it may sound, so give her space, make her feel at ease and make it an enjoyable act. Maybe your lady is feeling shy; so turn off the lights and then tell her softly about your desire of getting a glimpse of her body." Wicked & Wild : It's official that men are more sexually aggressive and they often expect their female partner to behave in a similar manner. While asking your babe to get adventurous, remember that your lady love may feel like you are behaving like a wild animal in bed. Meet the demand : Mumbai-based sexologist Dr. Amit Agarwal states, "Demanding that your woman acts wild and wicked in bed as you expect them to be is unfair. Your female partner can't step into a porn star's shoes and perform wild sex moves. Try and let her do what she enjoys doing in bed instead of forcing her to do things which you want. Once she is open to trying out newer sex positions, try asking her if she wants to opt for wilder moves." Oral pleasure : Oral pleasure can be enjoyed only when both partners give mutual consent. And quite often, it's an imposed act on the female partner, because not all women are happy with the idea of going down to please their men. Meet the demand : Sexologist Dr. Pushkar Gupta opines, "When it comes to intimate moments, nothing should be forced. Rather each act should be an expression of love. In case of oral sex, it's true that men are more eager to receive oral pleasure and women often are reluctant mainly due to hygiene issues. Men must let the woman realise that this is equally a part of their physical intimacy and he is not forcing oral sex on her. Once a woman starts taking pleasure in the act, just wait for an initiative from her side rather that asking her to indulge in an oral act every time you get intimate." WOMEN'S SEXUAL DEMANDS Multiple orgasms : Most women complain that their male partners fail to give them the ultimate Big 'O'. Thus, they start over expecting from their man and hold them responsible for perhaps failing to reach a gratifying orgasm. Men on the other hand, find it disgusting when their female partner concentrates more on her orgasm, being least bothered about his enjoyment. Meet the demand : Dr. Agarwal explains, "Women must not act aggressive if they are not getting an easy orgasm from their male partner. There might be several reasons behind this, so instead of showing your anger and making it look like an obligation for your better half, try enjoying the act to the fullest. And once you stop posing a demand for a gratifying climax, you will not only perform the act in a better way, but the enjoyment level would soar too." Slow and steady moves : Women are no less ravenous when it comes to sex, but they do define their limits when it comes to performing. They prefer a man who is not too wild in his sexual behaviour. The reason why men find it tough to give in to this demand is because they indulge in sex to enjoy and get pleasure, whereas women seek more of intimacy, cuddling, snuggling, which might not sound stimulating enough for a man. Meet the demand : Dr. Mehrotra shares, "Expecting men to perform in bed as per your terms and conditions will kill sexual passion and lead to troubles in your sexual life. Though it doesn't mean that you start accepting whatever your partner does in bed, but being too rigid and expecting them to perform slowly always is a bad move. Women need to understand that men harbour certain sexual desires and if you start imposing your viewpoint on them, it would lead nowhere. If their acts are uncomfortable, let them know about what turns you on and build a relationship based on mutual understanding." Using protection : Treating sex like a duty or responsibility that has to be played out every night is not a healthy practice. Women, in general, insist a lot on using contraception and men aren't too keen about it as it reduces their pleasure quotient. Also, the demand of using protection during every sex session is mostly driven by women's pregnancy fears. Meet the demand : Dr. Gupta suggests, "If you are too firm that your partner use protection during sex, explain this to him with logical reasons so that he can understand your mind space. Putting it as a demand will only make them furious; they might even refuse to perform. So follow a proper way to have your demands fulfilled by your partner, as forcing won't help whatsoever. Moreover, there are other methods of daily contraception like oral pills, which can be easily resorted to. It's important to build mutual understanding in this regard."

BY MUNIRA LEKOVIC EZZELDINE & JAVED MEMON, NOVEMBER 21, 2010 Finding a life partner is often a confusing and uncertain process, particularly for Muslim Americans. We have few models to follow, since many of our parents married under vastly different circumstances, and our values regarding courtship differ from those of our larger society. One of the many symptoms of our struggle is the growing instances of young Muslims divorcing within a year or even within months of getting married. How do we find the balance between knowing someone well enough and staying true to our personal values and boundaries?

Below, our contributors share advice on how to communicate effectively with partners, work through disagreements, and read signs that may point to future problems. Expand on the discussion by sharing related examples and suggestions on how to develop a healthy bond with someone that will indicate your compatibility with him or her. Munira Lekovic Ezzeldine: “A Good Marriage is Based on the Talent for Friendship” I always share with couples that they can’t know everything about one another before marriage; it’s just impossible. They will learn so much more once they are married and living together, such as daily habits and routines. However, there are many areas couples can explore before marriage and this requires clear and open communication. The core issues to discuss are life goals and personal values. These goals and values will impact the decisions they make as a couple in all areas of life, from finances to children to in-laws. If you are not on the same page about these two things then you will struggle greatly in the relationship. You will know someone well enough if you have discussed your respective views and shared your beliefs on how you want to live your life and what you find most important in your journey. With shared values as a solid foundation, building friendship, trust, and support for one another are signs of a healthy relationship heading towards a healthy marriage. It is also important that the couple interact within their respective social circles. By actually witnessing and interacting with someone in their comfort zone, you will be able confirm that the beliefs and values they are sharing with you are consistent with their actions. A person found to be lying or sharing half truths raises a red flag that should be dealt with, not glossed over in the hopes that things will change later. By working through disagreements before marriage, they will see how they will work together in the future. All human relationships deal with disagreements, so if a couple doesn’t seem to disagree at all, it may mean they have not yet progressed beyond the initial “infatuation” phase and truly begun communicating with each other. The couple should feel that they can truly be themselves, share their concerns and vulnerabilities, and grow together. Any areas of disagreement can be resolved if the couple is willing to compromise and show respect; however, individuals should not compromise on values and beliefs they hold dear because these form the core of each individual. An authentic marriage is one where we can share our personal struggles and weaknesses even if they are contrary to our values, and if we make mistakes we should feel safe sharing them with our spouse, knowing he/she will respect and support us despite our imperfections. This is also the basis of a strong friendship, as beautifully stated by philosopher and writer Friedrich Nietzche, "The best friend is likely to acquire the best wife, because a good marriage is based on the talent for friendship." Javed ‘Hijabman’ Memon: Self-Awareness and Communication Go Hand in Hand One thing God says that pertains to this “pre-marital dating” business is don't approach sex; that is the ultimate guideline to follow. Everything else is open to your own gut feeling. And yes, everyone’s boundaries are different. That is why communication is so vital, because different people have different boundaries, preferences, and approaches. Equally important is self-awareness so you can communicate your ideas to your partner. Understand and question why you hold certain beliefs and values about marriage or who you want to marry. The more honest you are with yourself, the more honest and open you can be in a relationship. However, the skills of self-awareness and good communication don't develop overnight. You need opportunities to test these skills and see how you and your partner respond to each other. To supplement conversations, I believe it is important to see your partner in a variety of contexts and social situations. See if what they say is consistent with what they do. How does your partner treat wait staff at restaurants? How does he handle stressful or unexpected situations? How does she behave with her family and friends? Your family and friends? Look for consistency and flexibility. For instance, if your partner suddenly becomes a radically different person when surrounded by a particular group of people, that may be cause for concern. See it as an opportunity to test out your communication skills! It is also an opportunity to discuss the compatibility of your approaches to Islam, and check your own consistency within that realm as well. If a relationship is strong, you will work through these issues and feel a deeper bond with your partner as a result. One reason Muslim Marriage Guides often fail is that they assume you practice their particular strain of Islam, rigid gender roles included. Reality is not so rigid, so take the time you need to see whether you and your partner’s worldviews and behaviors fit together. Three months ago, HijabMan moved halfway across the world to become a Husband & Dad all in one shot. Read his series, "How I Met My Wife (And Daughter)" to see if he followed his own advice. (Photo credit: rayhue via Flickr) Munira Lekovic Ezzeldine is the author of Before the Wedding: 150 Questions for Muslims to Ask Before Getting Married. She received her Master's degree in Marriage and Family Counseling at California State University, Fullerton and co-hosts an internet radio show,Family Connection, on One Legacy Radio. Javed ‘Hijabman’ Memon and his products have appeared in NYTimes, USAToday, Australia's Salam Cafe, & Comedy Central's Colbert Report. He was recently named one of the 500 Most Influential Muslims in the world. Explore his blog, products, and services athttp://www.hijabman.com.