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Not everyone is a social butterfly and for some, the very thought of making conversations is nothing short of terrifying.
However, Dr. Martin Antony, a Ryerson University psychology professor and leading expert on social anxiety and shyness, can help put those fears to rest with helpful tips to bring out that social butterfly out in all of us:
Women with low IQs are more likely than smarter women to go after rich men, according to a new research.
Experts say that it's not that women with a low IQ are naturally greedy, but they may instinctively be trying to line up financial security for their future kids.
Study author Dr. Christine Stanik of University of Michigan told the Daily Mail that it's 'only natural' for poorly educated women with dismal job prospects to seek out rich men.
"In ancient times, women evolved an attraction to men with wealth because they knew such a mate could improve the chances of their offspring's survival," the New York Daily News quoted Stanik as saying.
"It is a very strong gut feeling that is hard to shake off, especially when a woman does not have her own career, which would give her financial independence," Stanik added.
The research also revealed that smart women who are independently wealthy are more likely than dumb ones to have a short-term affair, a phenomenon that Stanik said was due to the women's heightened confidence.
Making conversation
1. This sounds simple and is easy to do. Start by reaching out to someone at the party. Smile. Make eye contact. Be approachable and open to conversation.
2. Join an ongoing conversation at the social gathering. People often walk about, moving in and out of different conversations. See if you can join a group that is discussing a topic that interests you, or that you can tell a humorous anecdote about.
3. Ask questions. Here's a chance for you to catch up with coworkers, friends or family members on what they have been involved with this past year and share some experiences of your own.
4. Be an active listener. Reflect back that you understand what the other person is saying and talk about an experience you've had or tell a story to keep the conversation rolling.
Quelling those "butterflies"
1. Don't assume that your anxious thoughts and predictions are necessarily true. Examine the evidence for your beliefs and do your best to think realistically. Ask yourself questions to challenge your anxious thoughts such as: "What is the likelihood that others will notice my anxiety?
2. Avoiding fearful situations will only worsen your anxiety. If you're shy, talking to others will be hard at first, but will become easier over time if you keep trying to be social.
3. Trying to fight your anxiety at a party may make it worse. Just accept those uncomfortable feelings and try some of the other tips to banish those butterflies so you'll have a good time.
Office parties: advancement moves
1. Research the dress code before you go. Ask the organizer or someone who attended last year's party if you're not sure. When in doubt, it's best to stick to business attire.
2. Shake hands with your boss and other senior managers and wish them a happy holiday season. Make sure your manager sees you at the holiday party, and also remembers speaking to you. When it comes time for promotions, your boss is likely to pick a pleasant employee who seems happy to be working at the organization.
3. Office parties are also great opportunities to cultivate new relationships and network, but you'll need more than one conversation. Use the party as a starting point, and then follow up with colleagues later to arrange future get-togethers.
4. Before you leave, remember to say goodnight and thank you to the most senior staff member in attendance, the party organizer and your boss before leaving.
Indonesian bad girl Sarah Azhari is at it again. But this time she is not taking a topless shower with her younger sister Rahma Azhari. But we do get to see her nipples again thanks to a nipple slip. She is seen below having a braless nipple slipping wardrobe malfunction onstage because she insist om dressing like a true skank. Looking a bit more chubby than when we last saw her in those almost incestuous leaked pictures with her and her sister naked sharing a shower. She is reportedly a nymphomaniac who has had a lot of sex with others in the Indonesian celebrity scene. Nothing wrong with that as long as she gets what she want I guess. On her blog she says that she is very interested in "dating Men, having relationships with men, friends, and activity partners." What kinds of activities is she talking about? She is willing to pose topless with her sis to entertain some guy friends so this freak is game for anything. Click on pictures to enlarge.
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Sarah Azhari (born June 16, 1978 in Jakarta, Indonesia) is an Indonesian singer, model and actress. She was named the most beautiful Indonesian woman in 2005 by annual Global Sex Survey 2005 of a well-known local brand, which may make her older sister, Rahma Azhari (also known as Ayu Azhari), jealous. She is one of eight siblings of celebrities' from the Azhari family, the family is known for full sensation and controversy.Her filmography includes starring acting roles in “Daun di Atas Bantal” and “Lupus Millenia” in the late 1990’s. Most of her roles are on television in soap operas. As a result of a temper tantrum, she was convicted of throwing an ashtray and stomping on the foot of a news reporter in Jakarta on 12th July 2005. She was sentenced to four months prison although she never served her time because of privilege.www.GutterUncensored.com
HURSDAY, DECEMBER 25, 2008
Indonesian Actress Sisters Rahma Azhari and Sarah Azhari Naked Shower Photos
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Indonesian actress Rahma Azhari is no stranger to scandals and controversy. How will she denied these very naughty topless shower photos, with her sister no less?Sarah Azhari is seen below with her younger sister Rahma taking a scandalous shower. These girls are from the rich and powerful Indonesian Azhari family. Movie star and singer Sarah Azhari actually try to live the quiet life but now it seems she has join her sister in the family business of endless scandals! Here are the latest photos of Rahma Azhari and Sarah Azhari that are circulating on the internet causing another scandal. It’s seems this family will never stop making controversy.Click on pictures to enlarge.
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Syahidah Rahma Azhari (born September 17, 1981 in Jakarta, Indonesia) is an Indonesian actress, model and designer. She is one of eight siblings of celebrities' from the Azhari family, the family is known for full sensation and controversy. Members of the famous family include celebrities like Sarah Azhari, Ayu Azhari and Ibra Azhari. www.GutterUncensored.com
Rahma Azhari is no stranger to scandals herself. Her ex husband filed for divorce once he knew the result of Rahma's daughter's DNA test, Rauf. Rahma's ex husband found that Rahma's child's real father is not him but rather is suspected to be an American who came to Indonesia for a job contract before returning to America.www.GutterUncensored.com
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Sarah Azhari (born June 16, 1977 in Jakarta, Indonesia) is an Indonesian actress, model and singer. She was named the most beautiful Indonesian woman in 2005, which may have made her younger sister, Rahma Azhari (also known as Ayu Azhari), jealous. She is one of eight siblings of celebrities' from the Azhari family, the family is known for full sensation and controversy. Members of the famous family include celebrities like Rahma Azhari, Ayu Azhari and Ibra Azhari.www.GutterUncensored.com
Her filmography includes starring acting roles in “Daun di Atas Bantal” and “Lupus Millenia” in the late 1990’s. lately most of her roles are on television in soap operas.
She is reportedly a nymphomaniac who has had a lot of sex with Indonesian celebrities. On her blog she says that she is very interested in “dating Men, having relationships with men, friends, and activity partners.”www.GutterUncensored.com
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