Tuesday, December 7, 2010

Women prefer chocolate to sex has ignited fantasies

It's really quite amusing that our Kamasutra has ignited fantasies, stoked the flames of passion and become a sexual bible in the West. But back in India, sex is still considered taboo and The Kamasutra, a "part of history" meant to adorn bookshelves.

But that's changing fast. Women have awakened, and to quote Bette Midler, "If sex is such a natural phenomenon, how come there are so many books on how to?" Much to the Indian male's chagrin; wives who once lived in blissful ignorance, are now demanding to know why they have not yet experienced the big "O" and the mortified Indian male now has a clear choice.

Foreplay or no play!!! Sorry guys! Indian women are not willing to be just 'reproductive beings' anymore. They are watching TV, reading books and doing pop quizzes in magazines to assess for themselves where they are placed on the sexual barometer. The sexual revolution in India is no longer just a media event. Women of all ages are exploring the art of sensuality and making no bones about their sexuality.

They are curious, willing to explore, experiment and are speeding down the sensory highway in pursuit of pleasure.

Their awareness makes them responsive to their sexual needs and they are no longer shy in asking, even insisting, for these desires to be fulfilled. A sexually proactive male partner is key to successful relationships today.

Mae West once said "It's not the men in my life that count. It's the life in my men."
I am a 22-year-old who has had an arranged marriage. I'm in love with my husband but he is extremely boring in bed. I'm afraid to tell him because I am scared, he will think badly of me, or even worse, think that I'm comparing him with another man. How can I improve my conjugal relationship?

Cuddle up to him at night and whisper that you want to make him happy in every possible way. Shyly, tell him you've been reading up on different ways to fulfill him (with respect to matters of intimacy) and if he is open to the idea, you'd like to try something new. If he agrees, it's a start to many a bedroom adventure and once the channels for such communication are open, it will be easier to make him aware of what it takes to please you!

I've been in a relationship for four years. Everything seemed to be good, but now, I feel my boyfriend just wants sex. Last year, I met a boy who was in a relationship. But we started chatting online regularly and even used to flirt. He suggested a physical relationship, which I refused at first but later got into. He says he loves his girlfriend and me as well. I have similar feelings for him. But we both know that our relationship has no future. I am really confused and don't know what to do? I really like this guy but I also love my boyfriend.

You doubt your boyfriend's intentions and that leads you to cheat on him? How does that make any sense? Are you just finding excuses for your errant behaviour? Both you and the Internet dude seem insistent on cheating on your committed partners. If you're not satisfied in your current relationship set him free to find a loyal girlfriend, but I doubt you'll be getting much loyalty from your online Romeo!

I met my wife while I was abroad and we got engaged in September 2007. Post-marriage, I discovered that she had had a relationship with a college friend, post the engagement. She says she is loyal to me, but is still in touch with him. I spoke to the guy and asked him to severe all ties with her. My wife keeps telling me she loves me and cares for me. At times, I think of divorce. But we have a son who is quite attached to me. What do I do?

If you feel the love, it exists. Unfortunately, so does the ex and I think it's insensitive of her to maintain friendship with a man, she had a scene with, post your engagement to her. Tell her it's all too recent and deeply disturbing for you. Emphasise you love and care for her, your son and your lives together and she must accord respect befitting your role in her life. Tell her that if your feelings are important to her, she should keep a distance from her ex, until you come to terms with all that occurred.

I am in love with a girl. I regularly talk to her and care deeply for her. There are some family problems from my side that are escalating. But now, whenever I want to talk to her, I feel like she's not concerned. She doesn't even remember what I tell her. I think she's not interested in me. What should I do?

Do you really need an answer to your question? Why would you want to talk about and share your escalating problems or life with someone who doesn't care to listen or remember?


Read more: Bringing the sutras to bed - The Times of India http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/life-style/relationships/man-woman/Bringing-the-sutras-to-bed/articleshow/7048104.cms#ixzz17RCMKQNa

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Here we have a Hispanic chick showing off her pussy and tits and unfortunately a stupid tattoo right next to that pussy. The tat seem to be someone's initials... undoubtedly her boyfriend at the time and most likely the guy who originally uploaded these naughty pictures of her online. I have no clue why so many Latinas permanently write names of guys on their bodies...it is so stupid! Anyway, remember to join the Gutter Uncensored fan page on Facebook athttp://www.facebook.com/pages/GutterUncensoredcom/71689381800 and feel free to leave a suggestion or comment there. And remember to send more interesting pictures and videos (of individuals 18 year-old or older) toGutterUncensored@yahoo.com ASAP. Click on pictures to enlarge.


Move over stag nights, girls are getting naughty as they kiss goodbye to their single status, reports Indrani Rajkhowa Banerjee

When entrepreneur Ashmita Bhatt took the plunge, she decided to make the last night of her single life one to remember! The stage was set in a farmhouse in the suburbs of Delhi with an exotic theme. As the revelry of the evening gave way to a night of humming lights, 23 girls high on a brew of cocktails held their breaths for the piece de résistance —two male strippers! There was wild screaming as the guys gyrated to scintillating music. Ashmita's night of fun and general debauchery was on a roll!

From tame to wild and downright kinky, girls are certainly kissing goodbye to their single lives in style! And they are beating the men in the wildness quotient. Stags nights have missed the bus, turning into "boring" drinking binges.

Here, fun is the byword. From condom curtains to fluffy, dildo-shaped cakes, obnoxious Moulin Rouge sets to psychedelic lights, the empowered PYTs are stopping at nothing. And yes, male strippers! "Almost every hen night has male strippers performing," says a former model-turned-beauty entrepreneur. How do they arrange for one? "The neighbourhood tattoo guy or event managers, anyone can supply a male stripper," she says. At times, girls even scout on Facebook."

An Indian stripper would set you back by Rs 20,000 and the firangs could cost you Rs 40,000 and above. A party with a lavish setting would cost anything up to Rs 80,000 to Rs 1 lakh, which includes the venue.

Girls are surely invading the male turf. Wine expert and bartender Shatbi Basu, says, "Women are marrying late, are financially independent. They need to express their sexuality."

Even though actor Riya Sen, who threw a hen party for a bosom buddy, feels "It's great fun and I don't see any harm in going really wild and letting yourself go", socialite Chaya Momaya believes, "It's women in the 20s and early 30s with a new-found financial freedom who prefer unabashed revelry. The elite would go for a place like Crazy Horse in Paris, where nudity is a form of art than ogling sessions."

In the middle and upper-middle classes, the hen party has become both an accepted marriage ritual and a source of controversy. Ruchi Chopra of Delhi-based Any Surprise Any Place gets calls from cities like Chandigarh, Ludhiana and Jaipur to take care of venues, décor and even return gifts, which include kinky toys, champagne glasses and edible lingerie! In Mumbai, Hiroo from Deserts R U gets orders for cakes in the shape of male and female genitalia or nude male bodies.

A socialite reveals one such party where they all "got down to their thongs just to feel sensual!" In another, a top Bollywood star's wife flew off with her girlfriends to Turkey for Hamam baths, where they did some serious skinny dipping.

The scene usually is straight out of Sex and the City and their inspiration comes from Hollywood stars. Coleen, wife of star footballer Wayne Rooney, splashed £20k on her hen night.

But how does one get away from the shaadi shenanigans? A Mumbai-based industrialist's daughter took off with her friends to Pattaya. The girls prefer the sanctity of farmhouses, five-star hotel rooms or a friend's place. "Even waiters and domestic helps are not encouraged," says Merlin Francis, event manager, Bengaluru. "It's the thrill of doing all the things that we would generally refrain from doing that makes these parties a memorable experience," says model Ramneek Pantal.

And what's wrong in letting your hair down just once in a while? Go ahead, live it up!




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