Tips to kickstart your sex life Sex secrets sure to drive him wild!

Men reveal sex secrets that drive them wild. They maybe simple things women do most unconsciously, but they are potent enough to have a man go up in smoke - thank heavens, not literally! When it comes to sex and foreplay, men think differently and so do women. What may work for the goose, may not necessarily work for the gander as well, and so to have sex that is thrilling, memorable and completely au naturale for both,men let women onto their secret fantasies! Action: Pretend to not want to make-out. Keep your lips closed and clench your legs together. Effect: Once he notices that you are not kissing him back, he will realise you are up to something. His kiss will become passionate as he will try to pry your mouth open. Fighting for it brings on an exhilarating primal instinct in men. Action: Have plenty of white tees. Wear them while working with water – watering the garden, washing the dishes and more. Effect: See-through, wet clothes are a real turn-on for men and they can’t wait to pull them off you. Action: A woman gliding her lips on the mouth of a bottle – whether it’s water or an aerated drink. Effect: The sensual caress of her lips on the bottle makes men go weak in the knees and their imagination runs away with them, wishing those lips were on them. Action: While out shopping, take him along with the clothes you want to try on, into the changing room, especially if you are buying lingerie. Effect: He’ll love you for thinking on your feet! Action: Climb into bed looking very innocent, then do wonderfully dirty deeds. Effect: Looking pure and being devilish is a heady combination and every man’s dream. Action: Do yoga and let your man watch. Effect: It can be the most erotic form of foreplay without touching each other. Action: Kiss the patch of skin in front of his ears. Effect: It’s an erogenous zone and he will quickly beg you for more. Action: When your man leans forward to kiss you, hold the back of his neck in your hands. Effect: It’s a tender move and will definitely bring your bodies closer to each other. Action: Caress your man’s chest often. Effect: It’s another erogenous zone. Tantalise him with light, feathery kisses to get the fire burning. Action: Moan your man’s name during the session. Effect: It can really turn up the heat! Follow us on Twitter for more stories

You've been married only five years, but you feel it's been a long, long time. When you fall into bed, all you are dying to do is close your eyes. If sex is the farthest from your mind while in bed with your partner, it’s time for some inward thinking. Here are ten ways to kick-start your love life and bring back the passion which is so absent right now! Togetherness is it. No kids, no work, just the two of you. And please leave those cellphones behind. Go out on a date all by yourselves and if you can’t do that send the kids packing to their fav aunt. She’ll only be too happy to keep them over the weekend while the two of you can have the house to yourselves. Catch a movie in bed, make love and be your most intimate selves – like you were in the early part of the relationship. Have fun. There was a recent study which stated that the couples who are enjoying themselves doing outdoorsy stud like bungee jumping, dancing, trekking were happiest together. The more you share special interests the more close the couple will be. Look inwards too. Meditate, exercise, swim – so anything to increase your energy levels. An active partner is the more sexy one. And stay connected to your better half as well. Look good. Chances are you will feel great. Really look at yourself in the mirror – do you need a facial, bleach or threading done? When was the last time you had a manicure? And what about your feet – are they like a fisherwoman? Love the way you look, and your partner will fall into step with you. Stay within touching distance. Be spontaneous, kiss hug or hold without expecting sex to be the natural outcome. Let the feeling linger...remember the night is still there...