What women actually think of their bodies

the more the curiosity to explore, warns psychiatrist V Chalam Das. Dr Vipin says parents and teachers should openly discuss about the positive and negative aspects of sex. "Media can also help in channelling their thoughts in the right direction," he says.

All people in this post are amalgams of people I know, so if you think this is about you ... it probably is.My dear friend, henceforward known as Crystal, (a name I used once to great effect) called me the other night in a state of crisis. She'd forgotten something at home and returned sooner than expected to pick it up only to find her husband of 15 years, Frank (pronounced Franc) watching an adult film on his MacBook Air.

There was a breathless pause wherein she awaited my shock and dismay. But all I said was, "And ... ?"

This may be a sign of the apocalypse, but I wasn't shocked, dismayed, appalled, perturbed or even mystified. It just seemed pretty ordinary. I'm going to guess that most people -- I have no statistics to back this up so feel free to jump in -- but most human adults have at least upon one occasion viewed for the purpose of self- and/or couple gratification theSopornos. Search your soul -- or just your computer history -- and tell me I'm wrong??

Pornography has always existed -- have you seen the Mayan hieroglyphs? The ancient texts of the Kama Sutra? Just head to your local museum of art where it won't surprise you to discover that Rome is the "birthplace of modern pornography" -- and of course all roads lead there.

I was watched like a hawk by my parents when puberty hit, and even so I was exposed to my first pornographic image as a seventh grader by my friend Annabeth Lingua (admittedly not her true identity).

Annabeth was bookish, with owl-lensed glasses. She wore her hair in a bowl cut, skirts to her knees and blouses buttoned up to the neck. She was a Good Girl. But her mother, Savannah, was a lusty divorcee who sunbathed topless in the backyard while we scandalized middle-school girls treaded water, pimply and flat-chested in the swimming pool nearby.

One day when Savannah traipsed out at 4 p.m., no doubt to meet one of her liaisons in an upscale Howard Johnson, Annabeth and I were left to our own devices. Before five minutes had passed, we were eyeballs deep in pornographic magazines found under the master bed.

I had only recently read (in my closet with a flashlight) a purloined copy of Judy Blume's "Forever," from which I discovered one could kiss and copulate simultaneously. Imagine my stupefaction that both could also be done while standing in pleather stilettos!

In 2012 we have either the good fortune or extremely bad luck of being able to access pornography in our homes on televisions, computers and even on our cell phones. Not that I've done that. I've just heard that you can do that.

I'm ambivalent about pornography. It bears an unsavory sheen. Also I worry I'll be smote from above should I use pornography for my private gratification. That perhaps I'll be cursed with a flesh-eating virus rendering me fingerless in recompense for my transgression.

But here is what I'll admit in print. Cable TV has single-handedly kept things frolicsome in my marital bed for 14 years. Fourteen years, people. Fourteen. Years. And Henry won't be able to pry his wrists from my lifeless, rigamortic grip until we hit the Golden Anniversary. We'll both be pushing 100, but it's going to happen.

Some of my favorite aphrodisiacs include True Blood, Spartacus, Hung (which sadly was canceled), Girls and Game of Thrones. Oh sure, sure, the story lines are compelling, the dialogue whip-smart, the worlds rarefied, but let's face it, these shows are all soft porn.

Soft or hard (yes, a pun), I think pornography can help keep a marriage fresh, vital, funny and ever-evolving if it's not used as a replacement for actual sex with your spouse.

And just as the Native Americans bless the animal that sacrificed their lives to provide them dinner, I too sometimes bless the performers who sacrificed their dignity to give me my ... FADE TO BLACK.

Do you dare leave your thoughts? You can use your Porn Star pseudonym. Mine is Buffington Shelby (street I grew up on, first pet).Women are suffering from an epidemic ofinsecurity about their bodies, a shocking new poll has revealed.


According to the poll conducted by YouGov, 59 per cent women said they have negative thoughts about their looks at least four times a day, while half feel guilty at least some of the time after eating.

Worryingly, one quarter of women would take it as a compliment if someone told us we looked too thin, the Sun reported. The exclusive survey also found that many women blame "women" for making them worry about weight. 45 per cent said it was their own gender rather than men who made them feel like they have to be thin.


The survey of 1,831 women across the UK also revealed that a vast 74 per cent believe society - general portrayal of the image of beauty is currently too thin.
However, almost half (42 per cent) of the respondents claimed that in reality, a size 12 is "perfect".


Research shows an alarming increase in the number of people in the state who are addicted to porn... students included.

God's Own Country, of late, is in the news for all the wrong reasons. The latest addition is the alarming increase in the rate of pornography. When compared to other states, Kerala is the largest producer of porn videos in India, say industry insiders. They point out alcohol addiction, lack of sex education and a conservative society as factors contributing to this development."Surprisingly, a large number of school children are addicted to porn," says psychiatrist C P Somanath. He recently attended to a case where a Class II student was brought to him by the boy's parents for counselling as he was caught watching a porn video. 

Dr Somanath points out that if children are exposed to such videos during their sexually evolving stage, they get acquainted with such videos and even develop an addiction towards it, which may continue even after they get married. Psychologist Dr Vipin too shares the view and says that excessive use of porn for sexual pleasure has paved way for cybercrimes and rapes too.

About 136 cases of obscene publication or transmission were reported under the IT Act by
the National Crime Records Bureau (NCRB) in 2011, and Kochi was identified as the hub of cybercrime, followed by Calicut and Trivandrum. "Those exposed to such obscene videos have poor impulse control as their mind would be pre-occupied with such obscene and gross thoughts," explains Dr Somanath.The lack of sex education in the state is also to be blamed for this development. "Through sex education, children should be taught to respect their body, what to watch and what not to, and practice a healthy relationship with their partner and friends of the opposite gender. However, sex education is almost nil in most schools in the state," says Dr Vipin.

The society is also too conservative. The more you restrict someone from doing something, 

a serial rapist still at large.Justin Lee/Li Zhong Rui

 in Leaked Nude Pictures 60 Female Actresses/ModelsTaiwan Sex Scandal in making

Everyone seem to be searching for the leaked and uncensored photos of the Taiwanese sex scandal involving Justin Lee/Li Zhong Rui ( 李宗瑞) now known as the Edison Chen of Taiwan. According to a report from Hong Kong, 16 pictures and a 13 seconds explicit videos were leaked and widely shared online. The different females were involved in the leaks which includes Kelly Lin (林熙蕾), Amber Ann (安心亞) and Maggie Wu( 吳亞馨). Now the young socialite is being called a serial rapist still at large.Justin Lee (李宗瑞), 27 years old, is the son of Yuanta Financial Holding's director Lee Yue-tsang (李岳苍), who reportedly has resigned from his position after his son's sex scandal was uncovered. The Taiwanese heir's sex scandal involving dozens of female celebrities and was disclosed to the public triggering quite an Internet sensation when he went on the run. Justin is accused of drugging and raping several women, and videotaping sexual intercourse with them as well as other willing partners. After two women accused him of sexual abuse Taiwanese police seized his computer and found numerous sex videos and photos on the computer that feature up to 60 singers, models and actresses, including at lease 10 who appeared unconscious during the sexual intercourse. He reportedly fled to the United States. after the allegatioms were made by the two woman but police suspect Justin Taiwan remained in Taiwan, and hiding in the northern Taiwan region.

Now the Chinese world have been actively on the hunt and requesting for the set of pictures on major forums, social media platforms and mobile messaging applications. The batch of leaked pictures show the sex scandal involving the son of a wealthy businessman Justin Lee/Li Zhong Rui ( 李宗瑞) in relations with his willing female celebrity sex partners. Justin who is currently in big trouble and on the run because of his alleged unlawful sexual activities is seen in the photos engaging in varies sex acts with several willing starlets. But police are investigating the allegation that Justin drugged two models at the same time, and used them for a threesome while they were unconscious. It is also alleged that he did not care whether or not the women were having menstrual periods and continued with sexual intercourse anyway.

Taiwanese police made an apology to the public for the disclosure of Justin’s sex scandal videos and photos, saying it is a second blow to the victims, and vowed to catch the people who initially uploaded them. But speculations have emerged that some ones inside the local police department are responsible for the disclosure. Some have checked to see if the pictures involving Kelly Lin (林熙蕾) Amber Ann (安心亞) were edited but unfortunately, the pictures involving Maggie Wu 吳亞馨 seems to be real. Maggie Wu (吳亞馨) and Justin Lee/Li Zhong Rui (李宗瑞) were in a relationship back in 2008 for 5 months.According to Taiwan tabloids, Justin Lee frequently hanged out at night clubs across Taiwan, buying expensive liquors for others to display his wealth. Models and actresses were often spotted gathering around and hanging out with the playboy, and did not mind having intimate interactions with him such as cuddling, and French kissing. His spending in clubs have always been generous and almost everyone in the entertainment industry knows him. The female artists and models were also often pictured with him engaging in some intimate moments from time to time in tabloids. Multiple witness even shared that he fetch these girls back home quite often and his relationships has an average time span of 2 months (after knowing each other for like 1-2 days in the clubs).

Justin rumored ex-girlfriend, Maggie Wu (吴亚馨), was said to have a breakdownafter noticing she was in the exposed nude photos. She canceled a press conference scheduled to be held, for the reason she worried that she would be overwhelmed by emotion during the conference. But in the last promotional activity, she had made it clear that she had not been in touch with Justin for a long time and refused to make more response to Justin's sex scandal. Maggie dated Justin in 2008, and she was rumored to have attempted suicide by cutting her wrist after breaking up with him.

Rui (李宗瑞) were in a relationship back in 2008 for 5 months.
This sex scandal erupted after the 2 models sued him for sexual assault. Taipei City police took on the case even though the actual incident happened 1 year ago. Initial investigation revealed that around 60 female artiste/models were closely linked with Justin Lee/Li Zhong Rui 李宗瑞 and there might be more sexual assault victims. It is believed that these female artiste/models kept their incidents with him a secret as it would influence their reputation as a public figures. Since then Taiwan police have released a warrant to arrest Justin he went into hiding for more than 2 weeks. The story is when Justin found he was interested in someone, he would never let her go to far. After drugging her, he would take her to his place with the help of his bodyguards and then raped her.

The police investigation also revealed that there are quite a number of videos were recorded, some indicated that the female artiste/models are aware of the filming while some did not. Interestingly, the playboy named all his sex videos alphabetically with the victims' full names in the titles. These videos were kept in different folders and were arranged follow by A-Z. After filming his sexual encounters, Justin liked sharing the sex videos with his friends to boast. Apparently it was even well known in his social circle that Justin Lee/Li Zhong Rui (李宗瑞) would make sex videos and shared these videos/pictures with his friends to show off his "personal accomplishment" with the female celebrities. And apparently, Justin's father is one heck of a player as well. Lee Yue-tsang (李岳蒼) is the father of 5 kids (From 4 different women). Some have started asking, like father like son? However we should not convict the man before he as had his day in court.

Now, we are going to avoid posting here the alleged rape pictures but we will be trying to get and post the pictures and videos of this sex scandal involving willing participants. So far everything leaked pics from the Taiwan police are of women that Justin was known to have relationships with and not of the women alleging rape. Only about 16 real photos have been leaked of this scandal thus far. Many more fake images are also floating around... It can be difficult to tell what is what but below we think we have most of the real ones and hopefully not many of the fakes. It seems the people who leaked these photos used their cell phones to take pictures of the computer screens at the polices station or at Justin's house so the images are not direct copies from Justin's collection. Hopefully some brave soul will download the images and share with the world without getting caught. And rememberRui (李宗瑞) were in a relationship back in 2008 for 5 months.
This sex scandal erupted after the 2 models sued him for sexual assault. Taipei City police took on the case even though the actual incident happened 1 year ago. Initial investigation revealed that around 60 female artiste/models were closely linked with Justin Lee/Li Zhong Rui 李宗瑞 and there might be more sexual assault victims. It is believed that these female artiste/models kept their incidents with him a secret as it would influence their reputation as a public figures. Since then Taiwan police have released a warrant to arrest Justin he went into hiding for more than 2 weeks. The story is when Justin found he was interested in someone, he would never let her go to far. After drugging her, he would take her to his place with the help of his bodyguards and then raped her.

The police investigation also revealed that there are quite a number of videos were recorded, some indicated that the female artiste/models are aware of the filming while some did not. Interestingly, the playboy named all his sex videos alphabetically with the victims' full names in the titles. These videos were kept in different folders and were arranged follow by A-Z. After filming his sexual encounters, Justin liked sharing the sex videos with his friends to boast. Apparently it was even well known in his social circle that Justin Lee/Li Zhong Rui (李宗瑞) would make sex videos and shared these videos/pictures with his friends to show off his "personal accomplishment" with the female celebrities. And apparently, Justin's father is one heck of a player as well. Lee Yue-tsang (李岳蒼) is the father of 5 kids (From 4 different women). Some have started asking, like father like son? However we should not convict the man before he as had his day in court.

Now, we are going to avoid posting here the alleged rape pictures but we will be trying to get and post the pictures and videos of this sex scandal involving willing participants. So far everything leaked pics from the Taiwan police are of women that Justin was known to have relationships with and not of the women alleging rape. Only about 16 real photos have been leaked of this scandal thus far. Many more fake images are also floating around... It can be difficult to tell what is what but below we think we have most of the real ones and hopefully not many of the fakes. It seems the people who leaked these photos used their cell phones to take pictures of the computer screens at the polices station or at Justin's house so the images are not direct copies from Justin's collection. Hopefully some brave soul will download the images and share with the world without getting caught. And remember